Cambodia

Parts of Cambodia were very pretty.

Our stay in Cambodia was quite brief compared to other places we went. As beautiful as it was (if you didn’t look too closely) there were some bad vibes within our group while we were in Cambodia. Part of this was because we were drinking too much and it was screwing with our mental health, and part of it was because there was a saddening amount of litter, with people deliberately chucking litter into the mangroves etc, which definitely left a bit of a sour taste in the mouth. Along with not having air-conditioning in most of the places we stayed, which meant there was no escape from the unbareable heat, and definitely led to increased irritability. We also found Cambodia quite expensive. They use the USD, along with the Cambodian Riel. Where 4000 Riel ≈ 1 USD. Which was a bit confusing as you would receive mixed currency change and most of the time you just had to trust they were not trying to scam you. But the fact they used USD meant that most things cost at least 1 USD, which was not the case in Vietnam or the Philippines, or even Malaysia where we went afterwards. So there were bad vibes, we were all grumpy and too hot most of the time, along with it costing more than we expected – hence why we didn’t stay as long as we had in other places.

Our first stop in Cambodia was Siem Reap. If you read my Vietnam part 2 blog, you will know that our trip from Vietnam into Cambodia was a little stressful, to say the least. Briefly, that was due to 2 x 6 hours, delayed bus journeys on buses not made for Westerners, with a pretty significant language barrier that Google translate couldn’t help with! Feel free to check out that post to find out more information on why it was particularly stressful. But once we had eventually got to our hotel (Okay Guesthouse) at 4am on the 13th January, we were happy that we had decided to keep going and not try and get a hotel in Phnom Penh, when we didn’t know where we were, with no means of checking either. Okay Guesthouse was actually really nice and very affordable. It was large and very fancy looking, with lots of beautiful ornamentation going up the front of the building as well as throughout the lobby. There was a lovely rooftop area with a swimming pool and sun loungers on one side and a bar and restaurant with a pool table on the other, although it was all quite open plan. We stayed here for 4 nights until the 17th January as I initally thought we might want a 3 day pass for the Angkor Wat temples when I made the bookings. In the end, after talking to some friends who had done it – we decided one day pass would probably be enough.

As we had quite a journey to get to Siem Reap, we decided to fly down to Sihanoukville International Airport and get a taxi across to Kampot where we were going to meet a friend, but the taxi cost 20 USD each. That meant 60 USD for 3 of us! Pretty expensive, but that just seemed to be how much it was to get a taxi there. We stayed in High Tide hostel which was right on the river for 7 nights (18th-23rd January). This hostel was very nice to stay at. There was a beach like feel as there was a big sandy patch with trees, and the river water was very salty and tidal as it was so close to the sea. The staff were very friendly and fun here.

After this we got a bus ticket from the hostel to the ferry port, which included the ferry crossing to Koh Rong island. The bus journey was a bit odd. We were taken to a travel agents and had to swap out our bus tickets for the ferry tickets. We were told to just sit and wait for another bus to the ferry port. They could speak English here, although they did not really tell us much. Some buses were coming and going and we didn’t know which bus we needed and had very little guidance about how long we would be waiting. After we were sat next to piles of stinking rubbish in the crazy heat for about an hour, a bus came to pick us up. It took a weird route and then dropped us at the top of the road for the ferry so we had to walk the end of the way. The distance was really not that far, and we could have walked the whole way easily enough and not waited in an amongst the smelly rubbish. But never mind, it did save us walking too much further in the heat. We managed to get some cash out before we got to the ferry as we had heard it was much harder to do so on the island, at least without incurring crazy fees. If I remember correctly, the ferry journey took about 3 hours, although when I looked online to check the times, they are advertised as 45mins. That being said, I did see one post that said the time to Koh Rong Samloem is marked as 45mins but usually takes about an hour and a half, depending on what stop you get on or off at, along with other factors. I believe our ferry stopped at Koh Rong Samloem before stopping at Koh Rong, so perhaps it was about 3 hours in total but I would not like to bet on this. Once we got off the ferry at Koh Rong, I think we could have got straight onto another to take us around the island, although we faffed about for just too long trying to get WiFi so we could figure where our hostel was and how to get there. So by the time we were ready for it, that boat had gone and others were no longer going due to the tide levels. Note to self – make a note of the accommodation address somewhere that does not require WiFi access! This meant that the only option for us to get there was a motorbike for each of us. I thought our big bags would be strapped down, but no, the drivers just put these between their legs. I didn’t think the bike handles would be able to turn, but they seemed to manage it – I guess the drivers are used to this sort of thing. Alex and Sam really didn’t like being on the backs of bikes, although I am always on the back so it didn’t really bother me so much and I actually managed to enjoy the view of the sunset when we got to the West side of the island. Saying that, the guy who took Alex went like a bat out of hell. And there was not really a road as such, parts of it were just on the super soft sandy beach where I was a little worried about the grip of the tyres, but we all managed to stay upright so that was good. The motorbike drivers took us to some place, started unloading us and talking to the owners. Then indicating to us to get back on as this was clearly not the right place. So they turned around and took us to the next place. We got off the bikes again and were taken up to 2 rooms by the owners. One of the rooms had a double bed and a matress on the floor. It was definitely not glamorous accomodation. It didn’t take us too much longer to realise that we were in the wrong place again though. The drivers had just left us at the wrong place. Luckily, Sok San New Beach hostel (where we had booked to stay) was not too much further down this strip so we walked the remaining way. When we got there the owners did not seem very friendly at all and we found out later that the food there was not that good either.

We stayed here from 24th-26th January, right over the Tet holiday (Chinese New Year celebration). This is why we generally struggled to find accommodation, and what we did find cost more than we had expected. It was still not terribly priced, although it was about double what we had been spending for anywhere else, even in Cambodia which was more expensive anyway.

The bar area of Sok San New Beach was right on the beach, with the rooms heading back away from the sea. Our rooms were on a wooden platform over the mangrove area. Alex actually fell through one of the wooden planks on one of the mornings as it had rotten. He would have fallen right into the mangroves had it not have been for the electricity cable right underneath his foot. Luckily he was OK and they fixed this patch of boards pretty quickly, but it did make us a little nervous when we walked on the boards after this.

Sam left us the morning of the 27th and went to Bangkok, via Phnom Pehn so he could finish his travelling time and get a flight back to sunny old Somerset. We got a boat back around to the other side of the island as we were keen to meet up with some friends who were staying on the island that we had met in Vietnam. They were the reason we went to this island in the first place, but we hadn’t realised how hard it would be to get around the island, so we were keen to see them before we set off for Malaysia. We landed at the main port of Koh Lanta although this was still far away from where Mats and Helene were staying. We had no where to stay for the evening and Alex had a big gaping hole in his foot still (I mention more about how he got that later on in this post). So I left him in the shade of a tree and went up and down the beach front trying to find a room for the night that wasn’t $50-70! We eventually found a place that was just within budget, although still more than we had wanted to spend (I think it was $15 per night, so really not that dreadful either). I went back to get Alex and brought him back to the shop front where I had agreed the price with the woman at the counter. Her English was not amazing so I was initially a bit confused about where the hostel was, I understood that the one directly above the shop was full but she had another place. Fortunately she showed us around some corners and to Papa guesthouse. The room was quite modest but comfortable enough, apart from the rats that were crawling along the bookshelves, and kept me up one night. The bathroom was just outside our door. We ended up staying here another night (27-28th January) as we had not booked onward travel at this point so needed to sort that out.

We managed to book a flight from Sihanoukville International Airport for the 30th January and stayed one night (29th January) in Sihanoukville so we could get to the airport more easily at a place called Moms kitchen in the village. I would absolutely recommend all other travellers to totally avoid Sihanoukville. It is still a huge construction site, the roads are more pot holes than roads. Although, it is possible that it might be nice in a few years, there seems to be big Chinese investment as there were lots of casinos.

Siem Reap
There is some horrible history in Cambodia. Siem Reap litterally means “Siamese Defeated” and is so named because of the conflict between the Siamese and Khmer. However, it was a very cool area. The likelihood is that you have heard of, or seen pictures of the Angkor Wat Temple complex pop up on your social media feeds. There are LOADS of really old temples all over this area, the most famous is the Angkor Wat Temple as it is the biggest and most well preserved. It is considered to be one of the largest religious monuments in the world.

As we got to our acommodation in the wee hours, we did not really do very much on the first day. We had food in the rooftop bar area and wondered around the town a bit, explored the markets and drank a lot of gin and tonics. We kept having  ‘one more drink’ despite not really wanting too. We had wanted to get an early night and set off early the next day to visit the temples, but somehow or another, lots more rounds were ordered. I was definitely at the stage of just drinking it because the others were, and I believe Sam might have been doing the same. As we were going to go home, we were catfished into another bar with the promise of a free drink. I mean, they were not lying, it was a free drink. But we should have gone home. It was a very fruity shot, with probably no alcohol in it. But we stayed for several more G and Ts.

We had been told that the 1 day pass was enough for temples, due to temple fatigue, especially in the heat. Our plan had been to rent bikes from the hostel and cycle around the temples. We had not realised how far apart the temples were. Fortunately for all of us, I had really bad period pains that day which meant we decided to get a tuk tuk instead. Thank goodness! We would possibly all have died of heat exhaustion and dehydration if we had cycled. We already ran out of water, including the free water that we had not accounted for that was provided in the tuk tuk and we were not cycling, but getting transported from one to the next in the shade. We all cheered for my bad period later that day! First time ever…

Our tuk tuk driver was affiliated with the hostel and had told the hostel staff the route we had planned on taking, then we changed our minds as we had not realised that this route did not do the main Angkor Wat Temple. After this he asked us not to tell the the hostel that we had gone with him. I found this a bit odd but was happy to comply. I think it was a safeguarding measure that they had to say the planned route, but then because we changed our minds he was in violation of this or something.

Initially our driver took us to the official ticket centre, which is a bit outside the town centre, where we could purchase the pass for the temples. Apparently this is the only way to buy valid tickets, so be careful if you intend to buy tickets through other means, such as through hotels and tour companies as they will probably not be valid. The ticket centre is supposedly open 4.30am-5.30pm daily, meaning you should be able to purchase your ticket on the day, even if you want to make it to the temples for sunrise, which pretty consistently occurs between about 5.30am – 6.30am all year around. If a ticket is purchased after 5pm it is valid for the next day, although you should be able to use it that evening for sunset as well. We were told about this but were not organised enought to make use of it. Most temples are open between 7.30am-5.30pm, although some are open longer (from 5am and/or until 7pm) to allow for sunrise and sunset visits.

Tickets were not cheap, but if you are there, you just have to factor that into your budget. It would be awful to be right there and then decide you will not check out these awesome temples because of the money. The 1 day pass costs $37. A 3 day pass would have been $62 (valid for 10 days from date of issue), and a 7 day pass would be $72 (valid for 1 month from date of issue). The extended validity of the multi-day passes means that the temples can be visited on days that are not consecutive. Passes are not transferrable and have your name and picture on them. Accepted currencies for purchase of temple passes include US Dollars, Cambodian Riel, Thai Bath, and Euro, or tickets can be purchased via credit cards. You can visit as many temples as you like in the time that the pass is valid. A lot of the tuk tuk routes cover 5 temples.

As we had drank a lot the night before, we didn’t set off too early. I believe we arrived at Angkor Wat somewhere between 11 and 12, just timed right for the midday heat… perfect! 😕 our tuk tuk driver told us that we had to go right through and he would pick us up on the other side. We spent about an hour and a half (I think) in this temple. It was so big! And so intricately decorated. It was truly fantastic. We saw some hot air balloons doing a fly by. It certainly would have been a cool way to see the temples, although I also think it is perhaps necessary to see it at ground level as well.

Our next temple stop was Banteay Kdei. This temple was a lot more in ruin than Angkor Wat. It was quite interesting to see the difference. We saw a big lizzard here, and a hive of what seemed to be bees. It was fun going over, and under, and through the crumbling stones. This one did not take anywhere near as long to walk round as the Angkor Wat Temple, which was good as I wasn’t sure we were gonna make all of them with the time we had and how late we started.

We then stopped for some lunch at a restaurant that our tuk tuk driver recommended for us. It was good to sit in the air-conditioning for a few minutes and drink some cold coconut, although it was a different type of coconut to the ones we normally had and I didn’t like the taste quite so much.

After lunch, we went to Ta Prohm Temple, which I think may have been my favourite. I loved the big tree roots growing through the temple. This had been the one I had seen so many times on Instagram which had made me so keen to go and see the temples for myself. Again, this was a shorter visit than the Angkor Wat Temple and also a lot of crumbling rocks like Banteay Kdei but was a bit bigger. It was hard to get a shot without tourists at this temple. It was a bit busier than Banteay Kdei, but I think it is more famous too.

After this, we went to Ta Keo Temple. This was in less ruin than the previous two temples and was more pyramidal shaped. There were huge, steep, uneven and tricky steps to conquer. We discussed that maybe it was deliberately difficult to ascend, as it was the place of the gods and therefore should be a challenge for mere mortals to get to. We found it fascinating that there are many impressive, beautiful temples in SE Asia at the top of hills, but the steps are often very wonky and tricky to climb. They can successfully build the massive temples, but struggle to do straight steps… That is what made us think that perhaps it is intentional.

The final temple we went to was Bayon Temple. Here there were so many of the large face statues which I loved from the previous temples. Again the tuk tuk driver dropped us at one side and picked us up at the other. We were quite quick going through this temple as we were hot, sticky and sore by this time. It was another temple that was slightly in ruins but not as bad as some we had seen that day.

Our tuk tuk driver had offered to take us to a temple up on the hill to watch the sunset for a bit more of a fee but we had decided that we wanted to go back and get in the rooftop pool by this point and cool off.

I think the whole day in the tuk tuk cost $15 or $18 for different loops but we gave at least $20 as we had enjoyed our outing and a couple of extra dollars was no skin off our noses.

That evening we cooled off at the pool, played some pool without a black ball and watched the sunset from the rooftop before heading into the city centre for Mexican food and going to a bar with an open mic session. The music was very varied but towards the end in particular it was very fun and funky and you could not help but dancing. It was a really great, but also a totally exhausting day!

Our last day in Siem Reap we didn’t go far from the hotel, we found a wine shop where we tried and bought some wine, then drank it while we watched tropic thunder in the hostel in the evening.

Kampot
We were in Kampot for a week as we wanted to see our friend, Sarah, who is also from Somerset. A lot of this time we spent drinking and just chilling at the hostel. While we were here though, we did go for a grueling hike in the Cambodian midday heat, up a mountain, through the jungle, to a dried up waterfall, with about 20 folk from the hostel. Despite nearly passing out from heat stroke, it was a fun day. Although, when we had agreed to it, we were expecting it to be a big waterfall that we could basically drive on a bike to and walk 10mins. This then got twisted to a different waterfall as one of the people going had been to that one recently and wanted to check out this other one. I can’t believe how many people from the hostel went on this expedition. We were due to set out at about 10am if I remember correctly, but it got pushed back and back as we were waiting for bikes and people etc, and with so many people it always takes longer than expected. The guys who knew the way and worked at the hostel had said it was a proper hike and to make sure we had enough water and snacks etc. They had also said it was about an hour of walking, so we thought a couple of apples would be sufficient for snacks as we had eaten breakfast, fortunately! It definitely took a lot longer than an hour, but I do believe that those guys could have done it in an hour without everyone else there. Luckily, I decided before we left that 2 X 1.5L bottles of water was not enough so we doubled up and had a total of 6L with us. Which was heavy to carry initially but wow, am I glad we took them! At one point I wasn’t sure I could keep going, my head was absolutely fried in the heat. I get super hot doing a small amount of exercise in UK, let alone climbing in the jungle in the tropics. Alex is great in this sorts of situations though. He poured some of our water onto my head to cool me off and sat with me for awhile in some shade, as the rest of the group were getting further and further from us. I did eventually get to a stage that I could continue. We finally got to a trickle of water with a small pool where we all got in for a few minutes to cool off. The leaders of the group said we should stay here for only a short time and then keep going to the next level where there should be another patch of water. I didn’t like this idea, especially after it had taken what I thought was most of my endurance to get this far and it meant leaving the small patch of cooling water that we had found. Not only this, but the route they took was vertically upwards in the jungle, and you had to clamber and grab onto tree roots and pull and haul yourself upwards. I felt so drained at this point. We got to a bit of a clearing with massive boulders, which clearly would have had water in the rainy season, but it was so dried up at this point. Part of this was due to the massive irrigation system in place that was piping any remaining water to the surrounding banana crops, and they were everywhere. The group split at this point, the leaders continued to go upwards in search of more water, and a lot of people sat on the boulders and waited for news of the mystery waterfall. After some time went by, some of the group that had been left behind had started making noises about heading back to the patch of water we had come from, which I was certainly very keen to do as it was so ridiculously hot! So again the team split, some waited to tell the others that we had gone back while the rest of us clambered back over the boulders and down the vertical jungle drop to the small patch of water we had left. We had another dip but then some of the group were saying they wanted to continue back as we didn’t have that much sunlight left. I am glad we did leave when we did as the sun was basically setting by the time we got back to the bikes. The group got a little more dispersed as we went back down the hill. I managed to enjoy the walk back down a lot more than the intensive hike upwards. I had cooled off enough that my brain felt functional again and I actually took some photos of the amazing scenery on the way down. I couldn’t even bear to think of this on the way up! We stopped at the point we had parked the bikes and some people had beer or much needed salty snacks. Several of the remaining group went for food in the city, to a dumpling restaurant that had been highly recommended. It was really good, and salty food, which was exactly what was needed at the time.

That same evening, there was a party being held in a hostel just down the road from the one we were staying at. I wasn’t sure how sensible it was to go after being so severely dehydrated during the day. But I went back to the room for a few hours, cooled off, had some rehydration salts and a general rest before heading out to the party. It was quite a cool set up, although the music was awful, at one point I had tried to go and dance but it was not danceable. I was a bit too tired from the day’s expedition to really enjoy it, but it was OK. I nearly bought some beautiful jewellery from a stall there but just never went back as I couldn’t really justify buying it, even though it seemed pretty cheap for what it was.

Another adventure that occured from Kampot was to the cave temple as one of the guys from the hostel, Kris, was keen to check it out and we decided to go with him. We got a tuk tuk from the hostel but the driver didn’t really understand English so went to drop us in town. I believe another tuk tuk driver translated for us to say this is not where we wanted to go. After a long and incredibly bumpy ride on a pot hole ridden track, we got to the climbing centre – which was also not where we wanted to go. We got up on maps where we had wanted to go, and after he stopped a few more times to get directions from locals, we eventually got to the cave temple. We were all delighted to get there. Some of our group were feeling a little fragile from too much drinking the night before, I was not feeling too rough, although the tuk tuk ride itself was enough to make most people feel a little queezy.

A guy greeted us and asked to be our tour guide, I think it was $1 or $2 each for the guide so we decided to take it. Our guide had very good English and was pretty funny. He asked our tuk tuk driver to wait for us as there was no other transport out this way. As we started the tour, he showed us the exits of the cave and said there is an easy exit and a funny one. We all said we would want the easy one, to which he just laughed and continued with the tour. We climbed some big steps with dragons as handrails if I remember correctly. The steps were quite steep and we were quite tired from the climb. We saw the very old temple just inside the cave and sort of thought that was the extent of it. But the guide then took us further into the cave and we all went into a section where we had to scoot on our bums down a vertical rock face for about 6ft or so. Therefore at this point we were well and truly inside the cave and it would be very difficult to go out the way we had come. The guide took us deeper and deeper into the cave system and then turned off his light and said “see you tomorrow, hehehe” and scampered behind the next rock feature. I did have a head torch on which I just happened to have about my person but the power was pretty bad so we were pretty much in complete darkness. It was scary but he was only joking about with us and flicked his light on after a couple of seconds. He did things like this a few more times while we were in the cave. The guide pointed out an exit but said we are going this way, to a different one… You guess it, to the “funny exit”. The guide explained how you had to get down low and push off the back wall and squidge yourself through the hole. Sam was first to try it and managed it no problem. Alex was next and couldn’t make it. He was too tall or had too big a chest or something that prevented him from being able to use this exit. He had to come back in and use another exit which was just above the one we used. I hadn’t realised that the other exit was so close but I was feeling hot and quite claustrophobic at this point so used the funny exit. Sam tried to just pull me out but that wasn’t gonna work, I had to get him to stop, readjust my footing and managed to clamber out. The guide, Alex and Chris then shortly came out from above us. We were all quite relieved to be out of the cave, we had not expected to go caving and were not really in appropriate attire. I was wearing a floaty summer dress and sandles and my dress kept catching on rocks and actually tore on one. Alex was also in sandles and had a small graze on his foot, directly under the sandle strap which he got from climbing out of the river on a ladder barnacle at the hostel. You normally expect caves to be cold, but this one was still hot and humid. That, mixed with grit and bat poop and the sandle strap meant Alex’s small graze turned into a huge, sopping hole. It didn’t heal for the entire time we were away due to the humidity. It did get better when we left Cambodia and got air-conditioned rooms but not fully, and I think he might always have a scar.

After the cave experience we got a beer, or 2 each at the entrance and then headed back into town. The tuk tuk cost us I think about $26 for the entire time, which worked out a bit more than we had expected when we agreed the original price but considering there was misunderstanding about where we wanted to go, it was not too bad. We went for a tasty Mexican as we were all ravenous. We were generally pretty impressed by the Mexican food we had in Cambodia.

Another evening I went into town with Kris for a look around. We checked out the famous Kampot pepper in one of the shops, and tried all the tasters. It was very tasty pepper, although I thought it was quite expensive and was hoping to buy some from the farm another time, but we never actually got there. Although Kris did buy some for a friend of his who was a chef. After this we walked around to the durian roundabout and back through the food market. I said I had never tried shawarma so we shared a wrap from one of the stalls and had some of their fresh lemoade with mint it was very tasty. As we were sat at the table, Kris saw some friends he had met at a previous place. They invited us to go for dinner with them in the Portuguese restaurant down the road. We were still a bit peckish so went to join them. We had a luxurious meal in a vague tapas style, and shared a bottle of wine. They ordered several dishes and we all shared them. It was more expensive that I normally would spend on food, especially without Alex, although it was a very nice way to spend an evening. It was quite fun as we were all from different places, Kris was living in Switzerland, the girl was half Dutch, half Portuguese I believe and the guy was Italian and had very little English. We were trying to communicate in other languages, mostly Spanish, but a little of French. I found this challenging as my listening skills for languages are not that good, but I did also find it quite enjoyable as it is something I want to get better at. They were staying in a hostel on the same road as us so we shared a tuk tuk back.

One of the days we were in Kampot we went to Arcadia hostel which had some water park features. We spent the afternoon here jumping into the river.

Another day we went on an evening boat trip down the river which had some fire spinners and a band. It was pretty fun.

The day after this we went across to Koh Rong right over the Tet holiday (Chinese New Year). We arrived at our hostel slightly after sunset and went to the bar for some beer and some food. We were quite disappointed by the food here, we tried it another time out of laziness, but after that we decided to go elsewhere. There were a few options around so it wasn’t too bad.

The night’s sky was fantastic here, 2 of the 3 nights we were here I went to the end of a pier and stared up at the sky. One of those times I needed some space from the guys who just had a lot of bad energy that night. The other time we all went together, we were on our way for some food, but the whole area had a power cut so no food was available. We thought we would sit on the pier for awhile and see if it came back on, but it didn’t – it was out for the next morning as well which was when we had to leave. Sam left on the early ferry as he had onward travel towards Bangkok for his flight home, whereas we still had friends on the island we wanted to see so decided to get the ferry just around the island and try to get more accomodation on the island. We were still not in the same area on the island as Mats and Helene, although getting to the same area was proving very difficult. We eventually managed to find some accomodation which was OK, it was more than our intended budget, but it was doable, whereas a lot of places along that strip were upwards of $50 per night! We had a brief lie down and then I went to meet Mats and Helene on 4K beach, which was about a 20min walk away. I left a grumpy Alex still in bed and made my way to see our friends at a pretty side of the island. We had a couple of drinks here at the sandbank whilst sitting in the hammocks. Helene and Mats joined me back to the main strip at Koh Lanta. And we managed to rustle Alex up enough to join us for dinner. We had some fantastic food from a beach vendor, I believe it was noodles, it was very cheap and very good. We had a lovely evening before Helene and Mats walked back across the island in the dark which I think would have taken them about 4 hours through the jungle to get to their campsite. I do regret that we did not go out in the sea whilst on this island at night as there were apparently bioluminescent plankton everywhere and I would have loved to have seen it, but I am sure there will be more chances to see this.

The day after this we stayed in shade and used the cafe WiFi to figure out our onward plans. We booked the following night to stay in Sihanoukville in a place that had airport transfer for our onward travel to Malaysia. Sihanoukville is a truly awful place and I would not recommend anyone to stay here. Our friends Issy and Konsti had warned us of this beforehand, although we needed to get to the airport on the following day so we just put up with it. We had seen the city on our way to Koh Rong island so knew a bit what we were getting ourselves in for, basically a huge, dirty, smelly, dusty building site, with rubbish absolutely everywhere. The roads are so unfinished that they just seem like dirt tracks with massive potholes due to the big machinery being used for construction everywhere. It is very unpleasant to ride in this city in a tuk tuk as it is so dusty. Fortunately our transfer to the airport was a taxi and not a tuk tuk. We didn’t stay outside for long in this city, we just went to the restaurant on the same street as our accommodation for dinner and then went back to our air-conditioned room for the night. The next morning we tried to get cash out for the airport transfer but both machines that we tried didn’t work for either of us, luckily there is always ATMs at airports. Frustratingly, we only needed about $2 more to cover the cost of the transfer and there are always fees to take any cash out but hey ho. It meant we had some for getting food at the airport, although this was pretty disappointing and expensive.

At the airport we noticed loads of people were wearing masks. We had heard about the Corona virus at this point but didn’t think masks would help much against a virus. We had seen people in the heavily polluted cities wearing masks prior to this, but in the airport it seemed to be almost everyone, apart from us. It felt very serial and strange. When we were waiting at immegration at the Malaysian airport there were even more people in masks. I have to admit I found it quite creepy. Then again, it was also quite comical at times, especially when seeing people with big beards and masks, or confused when they wanted to eat or drink but had a mask on, or with the mask around their chin but not covering mouth or nose – that is definitely not going to help against the virus!

On the flight into Malaysia, we saw palm plantations for miles and miles before we landed. Alex said this was because of the huge palm oil industry here. Whilst we were in Malaysia we saw adverts with captions such as “we love palm oil” which is certainly very different to the messages seen about palm oil back at home. The palm plantations were very beautiful to fly over, although it was a little sad to think that this was only there after massive removal of prime rainforest meaning so much less biodiversity in these areas. Alex also told me a bit about the palm oil industry, that he learnt during his environmental science degree. Apparently in order to be useful, it needs to stay at a high enough temperature, otherwise it solidifies and becomes useless. Whilst this is OK for local energy production in hot, tropical climates, when this is transported long distances for the Western market, it actually requires a lot of energy to keep it in the liquid phase, and this energy is likely to be of fossil fuel origin and therefore sort of defeats the purpose of being a supposedly “environmentally friendly fuel”, or at very least is very inefficient to use this as an energy source outside of these tropical climates. And that is without taking into account the deforestation that occurs to plant the massive palm oil plantations.

Anyway, after that slightly off-topic tangent I shall sign off with a summary. I would absolutely recommend the Angkor Wat Temples in Siem Reap, and for us, a day was sufficient to do the temples that we wanted. We also enjoyed just wondering around this city. I would also recommend getting a tuk tuk tour of the temples, you can hire bikes etc but they are far apart and it is ridiculously hot. Women need to cover up a bit for these temples, although men are OK in shorts etc. I did find other parts of Cambodia very beautiful, but only when not looking too closely. The Cambodian language very different to any I have any familiarity with and the Google translate app was not useful for us with this, which may be something to consider if you plan to travel here. Make sure you have Google maps downloaded for the area you are planning to stay, although that is useful anywhere new and not specific to Cambodia. Also on that note, also make a note somewhere that doesn’t require WiFi of the address you are staying. Several of our friends had recommended that we took USD while travelling in SE Asia as it is a universal currency, this was particularly helpful for getting to, and whilst in Cambodia, where they use it alongside, but almost more than their own currency. Due to using the USD, Cambodia felt more expensive than other areas we visited as the minimum payment, for the most part, is 1 USD – which is not the case in other countries we visited. Something I haven’t mentioned but was definitely distinct in Cambodia was that the rules for pharmacies were a lot more relaxed than in the UK, which in all honesty gave it a bit of a seedy feel in certain hostels. There were also “happy” pizzas and cookies being sold virtually everywhere which was very different to the Philippines, for instance, where drugs like these are considered a shootable offence, and not just by police. It was good to have been to Cambodia, although I am not convinced I will ever make a return trip there for a vacation. There were definitely areas I would have liked to get to while we were there, but I would rather go to other places that I have never visited before returning to this country to do them.

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Vietnam (Part 2)

We loved exploring the Old Quarter in Hoi An

We have been back in the UK for several weeks now and it is such a bizarre time, what with the lockdowns everywhere due to covid19. It has been nice spending time with my parents though. Even with the forced time at home, I am only getting around to finalising this blog post now. It is only a short ish one and I will get around to posting about Cambodia and Malaysia at some point, but for now here is the post for our last few weeks in Vietnam, enjoy…

We thouroughly enjoyed our last few weeks in Vietnam, although we did not have a very direct route of travel and ended up ping-ponging up and down the country a bit.

On the 26th December we flew down to Qui Nhon from Hanoi with some of our friends who were going for a beach getaway. We spent 3 nights (26th-28th) at Nha Muoi Homestay. It was nice and cheap to stay here and about 30 seconds walk from the beach. Our room was basically a little wooden shack on the top floor/roof and was quite cozy and modest. It was not very large in the room and there was a shared bathroom. We could hear every movement made by the couple in the room next door and unfortunately they liked to open and close the squeeky door many times at about 5-6am. There was a great communal chill out area on the rooftop which overlooked the food street below and you could also see the beach from there, it had a couple of loungers and rope and tyre swing seats as well as a table and bench.

Alex and I flew back 1 night before Thom and Dave as we had said we would meet our friend Sam who was getting into Hanoi from London very early in the morning of the 30th and would be jetlagged and in need of reassurance. We stayed the night of the 29th December back at the RedDoorz Plus near West Lake Tay Ho. It cost us more this time than the previous time but we wanted a good nights sleep so were willing to pay it. Sam got a taxi from the airport and met us there. We all had early morning showers and a cup of tea before heading over to Lily’s Travel agent in Old Quarter of Hanoi where we had booked a bus and ferry to take us to Cat Ba Island for the festival occuring on New Years Eve at Woodstock Jungle Camp. Unfortunately we stayed in the room chatting for too long before heading to the Old Quarter and several Grab taxi’s never arrived so did not have enough time to get food before the bus, although we did manage to get Sam a sim card before we set off. It took about 5 hours (I think) from Hanoi before we reached Woodstock Beach Camp, the sister hostel to the one hosting the festival. We stopped for about 10 mins where we were able to grab some crisps. There was also refreshments available at the ferry terminal and on the ferry.

We stayed at Woodstock Beach Camp for 5 nights (30th December – 3rd January) as we thought the festival was a 3 day event and that we would want some recovery time. I am not sure if the festival was in fact 3 days or not, although we thought 1 night was enough and did not want to do any more anyway, so could have spent less time here. The hostel was quite nice, we got private rooms which were gloriously dark during the day as there were no windows. There were matresses lining the balcony which our friend told us you could see sunrise over the bay from here as it was really close to the beach. There was a large communal area downstairs with many tables, chairs and hammocks.

We found the social groups a little awkward to fit into here and felt particularly sorry for solo travellers as it was quite a cliquey environment when we were here. From here, we got a taxi to the ferry which should have cost 250,000 VND although we did not get change from 300,000 VND but we were too tired to really care at this point. The ferry cost I think 12,000 VND per foot passenger and then the next taxi to the airport cost another 300,000 VND if I remember correctly. The people working at Woodstock were trying to push us to take the bus which would have been 210,000 VND each and taken us to Hai Phong centre, and then we would still have needed to get another taxi to the airport which would have taken longer and cost more with 3 of us. We think that they must have recieved a commision from booking the bus from the hostel as they were quite insistant. So just something to consider if you are travelling in a group.

We then flew from Kien An Airport in Hai Phong down to Danang where we got a transfer from the Sea Sun Homestay in Hoi An which cost 300,000 VND which was added to the room. This place was really close to the beach and we stayed here for 6 nights (4th-9th January) but then did 1 further night (10th January) at the more central Hoang Thu Homestay.

From here we got a taxi to the airport which again cost 300,000 VND and then flew down to Ho Chi Minh City as Sam was keen to experience it before we left for Cambodia. We stayed 2 nights (11th-12th January) at Nhat An Homestay in district 1.

Qui Nhon
This was a fantastic beach front city. We had a selection of beaches within walking distance which were all long and sandy. We found one here which was less busy and therefore had less litter on it, but both were nice. We also went to some more beaches which were further afield so hired motorbikes from the hotel that Thom and Dave were staying at. One of these beaches was near the big Buddah statue at Tượng Phật Chùa Ông Núi Temple, which we climbed on one of the days, and the other we had to go through the tiny streets of a little fishing village. These were also very beautiful and lovely beaches.

Whilst we were in Qui Nohn we had lots of tasty seafood. I would recommend the seafood street which has loads of street food style sea food. I do not remember the name of the street but was quite obvious if you walked down the coastal road from Bai Bien towards surf bar. Here we were offered a squid that had just come straight out of the sea and was barbequed up in front of us, it was the tastiest and freshest seafood I have ever had. Admittedly, I have never had that much seafood as my mum was allergic so we never ate it while I was growing up. I am still to this day a little put off by seafood sometimes, although once it was on my plate I found it delicious, so I am glad I ate it here.

Cat Ba
We enjoyed Cat Ba island, however we definitely over stayed here. This was because we were expecting to party for 3 days at the festival so booked enough time to include recovery after this.

On our first day we hired bikes from the hostel and went to the national park and climbed up to the viewpoint. We got some beers from the shop where we had parked our bikes, and then another round from a stall about 20 feet inside the national park. Climbing whilst drinking beer was quite hard but it was a fantastic view from the top.

The festival was not quite what we were expecting. We filled our bellies at the family dinner at the jungle camp prior to the festival, the food here was really good and I believe cost 100,000 VND each. The festival itself cost 150,000 VND each. It started pretty slow with some singers, who initially lectured the audience on the importance of wearing a helmet when riding a bike, which is an important message, but kind of brought the party atmosphere down a bit. The first few bands struggled to get anyone off their bums and on their feet dancing. This was better by the last acts playing who did some pretty cool, jazzy covers and mixing up of songs. There was some cool fire dancing acts that performed a few times, and I always enjoy watching fire spinning. There was a ticket system for drinks which was a bit annoying and I think the price of drinks either changed throughout the night or the staff serving were less able to calculate the ticket price as the night continued. In theory you could have changed back any unspent tickets to cash at the end of the night although I am fairly sure most people forgot to do this at this stage. There was a free shuttle at 6pm to the festival and then back at 6am. We did not make it until 6am so spent 300,000 VND on a taxi back to the hostel. I tried to tough it out, I even had a brief nap in a hammock there, but then woke up cold so managed to convince Sam and Alex it was time to go home. Oliver was staying at the jungle camp so didn’t need to go anywhere.

We enjoyed driving around the island generally. One day we stopped in Cat Ba town for some tasty food and drinks.

One of the other days I persuaded Alex to come with on a boat tour, although I think we may have both been too tired to really enjoy it. We went down to the docks and found a guy who had just come back from a boat tour and was willing to take us. He initally offered the tour for 900,000 VND for 2 hours but this was too expensive for us, we managed to talk him down to 500,000 VND for 1 hour. Whilst on the boat he kept trying to get us to do the larger tour by saying the small tour is very short, the big tour is very beautiful. He even came down to 650,000 VND for the large tour but by this point we only wanted 1 hour anyway. We definitely preferred the boat tours in Ninh Binh which had similar scenery, mostly because they were not on motorboats so we didn’t have the constant chug of the engine on our backs. It also just felt like less of a rip off. Cat Ba and Halong Bay are really quite touristy and therefore the prices are jacked way up. Ninh Binh is also incredibly driven by tourism, but it felt a lot nicer.

The beach area was really nice at the Woodstock beach camp and we all escaped here a few times. There were loads of hammocks set up as well as a slackline.

I managed to do a few of the days of the 30 day yoga with Adriene journey, “home” on the beach here as it started at the beginning of January. It was a lovely, relaxing area to do this and had a great view.

Sam said he enjoyed spring rolls for the first time in Cat Ba. I told him that the Vietnamese spring rolls were so much better than the ones we get at home.

We managed to roll up some D and D characters and have a couple of short sessions while we were here which were quite fun. It was quite strange playing with people we were less familiar with as their individual styles of playing were so different to what we were used to, although this brought fresh and interesting perspectives to the game.

Despite having enjoyed lots of parts of Cat Ba, we were all quite glad to be leaving by the time we did.

Hoi An
Hoi An was such an incredible city and is probably my favourite city I have ever been to. It was so lovely just wondering through the cute little streets of Old Town or relaxing on the beach. There were so many lanterns in this city that it just looked spectacular. Every other street seemed to have a temple or place of interest which was really fun to walk around, even though we did not purchase the tickets required to go inside. We spent one late afternoon, into early evening getting mojitos at a bar on the first floor overlooking the river. This was such a gorgeous spot to sit at as day turned to night – all the lanterns along the street and on the boats started lighting up and created beautiful reflections in the water.

Hoi An is considered ‘The place to go’ for getting tailor made clothes in Vietnam. There are tailors in virtually ever other building. They can produce fantastic clothing within 24 hours and then invite you back for fittings which may take a few more sessions. I got myself a multi-way dress and Sam got himself a full 3 piece suit. I went in with a vague idea of what I wanted with a couple of pictures, I liked the top of one and the bottom of the other. They took my measurements and created the combination of what I had shown them in a fabric that I chose. The style I chose is called an infinity dress so there are loads of different ways to wear it. I am pretty happy with how it turned out.

In all of the time we were away on our travels, we got the slackline out of the bag for the first time in Hoi An. We set it up a few times, at Kahunas beach and the beach near where we were staying. Sam had said he was never going to be able to do slacklining as he tried many times before, although with some encouragement, a few tips, and a bit of practice he was taking multiple step – like a pro! Well, nearly!

Part of the reason we went to Hoi An when we did was to meet up with our friends Nico and Erin that we had met at Ban Gioc waterfall before they went away to Thailand and beyond. It was great to see them again.

Whilst in Hoi An we had some really delicious food at Kumquat BBQ restaurant, it took awhile to find this place but it was so worth it. I totally would recommend it. It was in and amongst the vegtable village setting.

We also ate a few times at The Old Man restaurant and bar which was absolutely amazing the first time, but I was a bit disappointed when we ordered the same dish the second time.

Siagon
Sam was keen to check out the big city before we left Vietnam. Although, the first night we found our accommodation and went straight to bed leaving us with one full day in Siagon. We attempted to go to the Little Hanoi Egg Coffee cafe that we had been to before, but that one was full. They told us about their other shop just down the road so we went to go there as Alex felt Sam should experienve this egg coffee as it was his favourite coffee in Vietnam. We found the sign of the shop on the corner at the crossroads but did not read it thoroughly enough as we should have gone upstairs. We ended up in the cafe on the corner which was not the one we had intended. Alex and Sam both got an egg coffee but they were not as good. It did not occur to us at all that the menu didn’t look the same and there was no “Little Hanoi” branding on anything and the food choices were much more limited. We did not fancy any of the snack food on offer in this other cafe so only had drinks there. As soon as we stepped outside of this cafe again we realised that we had simply gone into the wrong place. At this point we decided just to go for a second egg coffee and food at the place we had originally intended – resulting in Alex and Sam being very jacked up on caffeine afterwards. It was worth it though as it was much better, and the food here was delicious, as it had been in the partner shop, previously.

After this we wondered the streets looking for a few bits and pieces that we wanted to buy, including travel to Cambodia. We managed to find all, or most of the items we required and decided to celebrate by drinking cheap beer before heading back to shower and cool off in the air conditioned room.

We went to Baba’s Kitchen again to close our time in Vietnam with some delicious Indian curry. We managed to convince Helene and Mats to come and join us for drinks later in the evening and had a very silly evening. It was very different to our previous stay in Siagon as that time we had been avoiding the booze. I have to say, as much as we enjoyed the backpackers street sober, it was more fun when cheap beer and great company was added.

We arrived the next day at the travel agents that we had booked our coach to Cambodia with plenty of time to spare. Our plan was to grab food nearby, although the guy at the desk of the travel agents made it seem that we had a lot less time than we did and directed us to one of the banh mi stalls you could see from the shop front. We got a sandwich from here and as we were ordering the guy came out of the shop and said we had more time than he initially said but by this point we decided to stick with it. I had learnt from previous banh mi’s to avoid the meat and the pate, although I had not communicated this with Sam and so unfortunately Alex and Sam both could not eat their food. They then went over to the central market to buy a smoothie just so that they were not completely empty for the entire 6 hour bus journey. We made it back to the travel agent still with plenty of time to spare. The plan was that a mini bus would be picking us up to take us to the main bus. The time this was due had come and gone. The guy behind the counter took a phone call and then informed us pretty calmly that we might want to get ready. As we were putting on our bags, his tone changed somewhat to rather hurrying. He told us directions about which bus we needed to get on the corner, but then decided just to come with us down the street and ushered us to the end of the road where the bus we needed was pulling up to the corner. He flagged it down for us and virtually pushed us on the bus with all of our baggage. I was expecting to be able to put the luggage in underneath but it was just piled high in the back few seats. At this point we were not sure if this bus was taking us to the main bus, or if it was the main bus. It turned out this was the main bus, but that it circled around the city for about an hour before actually setting off so the rush was not really necessary.

We had booked to go all the way to Siem Reap which was 1 bus to Phnom Penh and then a sleeper bus from there. Both buses were quite strange in their own way, especially when we didn’t really know what to expect. The land boarder crossing was quite peculiar. We had paid $35 USD for the Cambodian visa ($36 for Sam who had an eVisa for Vietnam) whilst we were on the bus and the guy on the bus took the money, and our passports. We had to all get off the bus and go through security, although our big bags remained on the bus. The guy called our names as they did some paperwork with the passport. When we got our passports back they had 2 sheets of paper in them with made up contact details for us. Prior to getting back on the bus, we handed over our passports again. We were on the bus for about 100m and then had to get off the bus again. At this stage there was a small food court where you could buy some food although you had to be ready again for when the bus was ready to go again. We did not get food here but did get a small can of beer which an American man bought for us out of ease with paying with big notes, which was very kind of him.

We were slightly disconcerted by the handing over of our passports before we got on the bus at the boarder, although I am pleased to say we did get them back when we got back onto the bus. This time one of the pieces of paper was gone and a stamp had been gained.

Slightly further in the journey we stopped for a short comfort break and bought some crisps. After this we did not stop until Phnom Penh where we were told we had to be back at the travel agents in about half an hour, although the bus we needed was at least an hour away. We got a terrible goat meal to share between us from a (/the only) nearby restaurant and were slightly over the half hour time we were told before we got back to the travel agents, so we were a little worried. We got a tuk tuk transfer to another travel agents where no-one seemed to speak any English. We arrived at this new travel agents with plenty of time before the bus we were expecting was due. The time the bus was supposed to be came and went, (this seemed to be a reccuring theme…) along with many other fancy looking sleeper buses. We kept getting our hopes up with body language from the people who worked here, but each bus that came and went was not ours, or so we hoped. After a lot of waiting around, we were ushered into another tuk tuk. At this stage we did not know if it was due to take us all of the way to Siem Reap. We hoped not as we were crammed in and it was not that comfortable and we were hoping to get some shut eye on the second 6 hour bus – which certainly would not happen in the tuk tuk. We were not in the tuk tuk for too long though before we were ushered out at another travel agents where again, no-one seemed to speak English. At this point we realised that we could not even read the Cambodian alphabet. It just looked like quite pretty squiggles, potentially a mix between Arabic and Hindu. Some more buses came and went from this travel agents and we were really starting to feel that the lack of communication might become somewhat awkward. I had previously tried to find Khmer on Google Translate to download although I could not find it. We were worried that we might not be able to find accommodation in Phnom Penh if we should need to and had no idea where we were at this stage. We had not downloaded maps for Cambodia either at this point and had no access to WiFi. Eventually we were ushered onto a sleeper bus. Again, we had to take all of our luggage onto the bus and could not put it underneath. We had learnt from our previous sleeper bus that you do not want to take anything extra into the sleeper bus, but we had no choice and had to take all of our things with us. As soon as we stepped onto this sleeper bus we realised we were expected to pair up on the matresses, and have our luggage in with us. We were truly regretting not staying one night in Phnom Penh at this stage like we had debated on the previous bus journey. Myself and Alex went in together with one of our big bags and both small bags tucked in the bottom corner of our double matress. Thankfully Sam took our other big bag and put his in the isle. I really did feel for Sam though as he was shoved in with some random Cambodian person. The beds were not very big at all – all of us were too tall to fit lying down straight. We were really regretting every decision that had lead up to this point, especially as the bus was so crazily hot. There was air con but it was limited and hard to angle in an appropriate way. I managed to angle the air at my chest and just lifted my top to try and cool down, it was no time for modesty. I had my legs curled up ontop of my bag and Alex was rammed in next to me.

Considering all of this, we did actually manage to sleep on this bus which we were not expecting. We stopped for a pit stop and as soon as the bus stopped the bus temperature rose again to unbareable temperatures so I had to get off, even just for a few minutes. I managed to log into WiFi at this services and tried to download maps and also check where our accommodation was booked. We were back on the bus before the maps had finished downloading so I was not sure if it would be any good still. After this stop I lay curled up on my side, as did Alex and again managed to fall asleep. We got kicked off the bus at Siem Reap and were dazed and confused. We managed to gather our thoughts for long enough to get a tuk tuk to our booked accommodation at Okay 1 Villa. Although we realised the next day that he took us a weird route. We got to the hotel at 4am and went straight to bed, awake only for long enough to congratulate ourselves on picking a very fancy looking hotel.

I shall tell you more about our adventures in Cambodia in my next blog, which will be a short one as we were not there for very long, espeically in relation to Vietnam. After that, I shall go on to tell you of our awesome travels through Malaysia.

I shall close off now by advising other travellers that are keen to go to Vietnam to focus their time in the Northern parts. If you can ride a motorbike, I would highly recommend the Ha Giang loop, and if not it is still possible to do this with an easy rider tour – although we loved the freedom of our own vehicle. We would also highly recommend Vu Linh Homestay at Thac Ba lake, Viet Anh Homestay in Tam Coc, Nguom Ngao Homestay at Ban Gioc, and Hoi An as a whole. We did enjoy the other places we went to as well, but these areas will always hold a fantastic place in our hearts.

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Vietnam (Part 1)

We loved the Ha Giang Loop in the Northern part of Vietnam.

Well, we have been in Vietnam for slightly over 9 weeks now and have mostly loved it. I will say there were some doubts earlier on as to whether or not we were doing the right thing being away from home for so long. But that seemed to melt away as soon as we left the cities. As I have menrioned in previous posts, we are both country folk and so basically 3 solid weeks in cities was just too much for us and really had a negative effect on us and our mental state. Our game plan changed to mostly avoid the cities, but to keep going back to Hanoi just for a couple of days at a time to see our friends there and use it as a base before we set off again to more countryside.

In this post I shall start again by saying how long we spent and where and how we travelled between these places. Before I start with that though I shall touch on the currency. The conversion rate is approximately £1 ~ 30,000 Vietnamese Dong (VND), which definitely took some getting used to. The lowest currency available is 1,000 VND, but fortunately there are no irritating coins, only notes. We were told there used to be a 500 VND note but that this was removed from circulation not too long ago. We wonder why they do not juat scrap the “thousand” from all of it to make it simpler, but I guess that would be a lot of investment to make this change. I still get confused with 10,000 and 100,000 notes – to me they are a similar greenish colour, although a friend argued with me on this and thought the 10,000 was more beige than green. The larger the monetary value of the note, the physically larger it is, which can help decipher them, but only when you have both.

We flew from Manila to Siagon (AKA Ho Chi Minh City (HCMC)) which took about 3.5 hours and we spent our first night (20th September) in a hotel by the airport as we arrived late, especially after going through the immigration checks. I can’t remember which hotel this was but it did the job for the few hours we were there.

From here we got a Grab taxi to 24h Siagon which we had booked for several nights. We were too early for check in so left our bags here and went out for lunch and had our first Banh Mi in a coffee shop called $nob. I have to admit I didn’t really like it, but I digress. We went back to the hotel and were taken to our rooms… it was at this point we realised that there had been a mistake with booking.com and they had sent the wrong details of the booking through to the hostel owners. We checked our confirmation email and we had booked a room with a double bed, although the owners email from booking.com indicated we wanted 2x pods. The room we booked was unavailable and I was not overly happy with the idea of the pods. They were very space-age with bright lights that made me feel a bit sick. The pods felt quite claustrophobic. The floor outside was sand, which was incredibly novel – although it meant that the beds were instantly sandy despite brushing feet off as you enter. We agreed with the owner that we might not want to stay more than 1 night, if at all, as this was not what we were expecting. He said he would not mark us as arrived until the next day if we wanted to stay so he would not have to pay the fee to booking.com if we didn’t stay. The pods were not long enough for Alex to lie down in, and I knew it would be an issue trying to get out of the pod in the middle of the night to go to the loo as you had to press the right button for lights or unlocking the door, which in the dark is a bit awkward. We stayed only long enough to use the WiFi to find other accommodation and then changed to the new place. We were going to get a Grab again to the new place, but decided to walk it as the traffic direction would mean it would be a longer journey, and it wasn’t too far.

We had initally booked 4 nights but ended up extending to 7 nights (21st-27th October) in Meow Hotel and Cafe. It was very nice here and the staff were incredibly friendly and helpful. The room was quite big and nicely, but simply decorated. The bathroom was also nicely decorated and there was really good water pressure which was great for the shower as well as the bum gun! Haha. This hotel was in a central location and only a short walk from the walking street and parks etc in District 1. The hotel was tucked away on a side alley, which was good as it meant the general city noises were slightly further away and it was quite quiet. If we were due to stay in Siagon again, I would definitely consider staying here again.

From here we got the Train to Nha Trang (SE22 I think). This train took over 9 hours, and it was very hot. We initally booked to stay 3 nights at OYO 311 Shome Hotel but extended for 1 more night (28th-31st October). The hotel was above a clothes shop and I have to admit, I am still not quite  used to going through one business to get to another. This hotel was quite central and only a short walk to the beach with plenty of bars, cafes, restaurants and shops nearby.

From here, we decided to get a sleeper train (I think SE22 again) on the 1st November to Da Nang as the journey is about 10 and a half hours and we thought it was best overnight to save accommodation costs. Although, this was not worth it – we barely slept at all on this train but I will explain more about this later.

We sat in Da Nang trian station for awhile as we wanted early check in and it was so early in the morning (6.30) that we thought the night porter at the hotel might not speak very good English and understand the request. We arrived at the Thanh Nhan Motel slightly after 8am and had to pay 60,000 VND (~£2) for the early check in so we could get a few hours of sleep. We initally booked 3 nights but extended a few times as the lack of sleep on the train lead to a bit of illness, lack of movement and exploration of the area (2nd-7th November). The English level of staff at this Motel was rather limited but we got by with the help of Google translate. Again, this accomodation was only a short walk from the beach and had lots of restaurants and shops nearby, although the main part of the city seemed to be over the bridge and further from the beach, this suited us pretty well but if you want more city vibes then you may want to consider different accomodation. Our room had a fridge in it which was quite nice for ice cold water, and fruit – we even bought cheese while we were staying here, but it was very expensive.

We looked at getting trains to Hanoi from Da Nang but this was due to take about 17 hours. Even with stop at Vinh we thought this was too much travelling in one day. Therefore we decided to book a flight which worked out at about £43 I believe for both of us and our luggage and took 1 hour 20mins. It was a bit more expensive than a bus or train but not by much and we decided it was worth it. Initially we booked 3 nights in RedDoorz near Truc Bach Lake, but ended up extending for a night (8th-12th November). This accomodation was an easy walk to West Lake and Old Town and also had lots of restaurants, cafes and shops nearby. It also had a fridge, and a kettle. The door to the bathroom was a sliding door and kept getting slightly stuck on the rollers. Overall though, this was quite nice accommodation.

At this point we were pretty desperate to get out of the city so we got the train mid-afternoon to Ninh Binh which took about 2 and a half hours (I think the SE9). We arrived just before sunset and then got a Grab taxi to Tam Coc. It was a grey and misty evening, although almost instantly we both felt the weight of city life and stress disappear. Our shoulders dropped and we were instantly more relaxed in beautiful scenery. We had intended to stay 3 nights initally, but I had messed up the Agoda booking and so had only booked 2 nights at Viet Anh homestay. Considering we only arrived in the evening, this was definetly not long enough. We discussed a few times that we were still not ready to go back to the city so ended up extending a few times to the total of 10 nights (13th-21st November). They had very little English but the family were so friendly and always trying to communicate despite the language barriers. The homestay was off the main road and down the street. It was lovely and quiet there. The garden was beautiful and we sat out in it a few times. It was only a short walk to lots of bars and restaurants as well as to the lake and the local market. Breakfast was included here, and virtually every day I chose the omlette in bread with tomato, I thought it was great! I would highly recommend this homestay. They offered motorbike and bicycle rental as well as bus tickets and laundry. We found the motorbike rental was more expensive at the homestay than from another place in town so we did not hire a motobike from the homestay.

We got the bus back to Hanoi so we could see more of our friends. We checked the bus price in vendors in Tam Coc town against the one offered at the homestay, which claimed to always be the cheapest. The homestay was offering it for less, but we mentioned this and they were instantly offering a lower price, so we did buy it in town – but it just goes to show that this price is not fixed and can be bartered. We did not check the price online as we then thought we might have been ripped off if they could drop the price instantly. So I would suggest that you perhaps check prices online. I think we ended up paying 120,000VND each for this journey. The bus dropped us in Old Town Hanoi which was conveniently quite close to where we had booked to stay at Hanoi Lotus Hostel so we walked as it was rush hour and would probably have taken longer by taxi. We stayed here for 2 nights (23rd-24th November). This district was a great central location with lots to see and it was fun just wondering through the streets of Old Town. The hostel was OK but did not look very much like it did in the pictures. The shower was more of a dribble of water than a shower, the bathroom was very small and the bed was very hard and not very comfortable.

We decided to stay another couple nights in Hanoi (25th-26th November), but swapped to a different hotel. We chose on what looked to be a comfortable bed. We ended up at RedDoorz Plus near West Lake Tay Ho. And I can confirm the bed was great! So soft! Dreamy! When we go back to Hanoi we will almost certainly book here again. The building was still very new, and the reception area was not finished, but the bedrom was large, had a table and chairs as well an extendable desk that was possibly for use as a dinner table, there was a fridge-freezer and kettle as well as some induction hobs, although there was no other utensils for cooking but I expect this was because it was so new. The bathroom actually had a bathtub and big, plate-style showerhead. This hotel was a short walk from West Lake. A lot of the very good restaurants we have been to in Hanoi were easily walkable from this hotel.

Alex found a place by Thac Ba that we wanted to go to but were not sure how to get there. We used the live chat on the website of Vu Linh Homestay and they were very helpful in providing information about buses. We could not find this info online so would probably not have made it there if they hadn’t have told us. There were 2 buses we could get from My Dinh bus station in Hanoi; one at 10am (to Tay Coc and Coc Lem) and the other at 4pm (to Bai Bang, Doan Hung, Cat Liem and Luc Ven). We had to go to stand 4. It was incredibly confusing due to language barriers. We were told to come back about 20 mins before the depature time so we just sat in the waiting room. After some time, someone who was on the same bus as us had over heard us talking to some other Westerners about which buses we were taking and indicated to us to go back to stand 4. I thought I had to pay for the ticket at the bus station but we were ushered through and onto the bus. This was only slightly before the 20 mins that we were advised. We sat on the bus and were still not sure how payment was taken, but it turned out it was taken much further into the journey, just before the petrol stop. It cost us 150,000 VND each (~£5). The journey took about 4 hours and dropped us on the road just outside of the homestay. As we had decided to only do short stops in the city, broken by long stints in the countryside we booked for 5 nights initially at the Vu Linh homestay. We ended up extending for 1 more night as we didn’t want to make any decisions about onward travel at this stage. We absolutely loved it at this homestay and I would recommend it to other travellers. The family were very friendly, helpful and accomodating. They provided us with breakfast every day (60,000 VND each ~£2), along with dinner and rice wine each night. For dinner there was a choice of a big meal to be eaten with the family (150,000 VND each ~£5, unless the vegetarian option was chosen which was 100,000 VND ~£3.30) or a smaller option which was not eaten with the family but downstairs (80,000 VND ~£2.60). We had a few of both types of dinner and they were all delicious. Breakfast was typically fruit and pancakes with salty eggs, although I am not overly fond on pancakes so they also offered noodle soup, fried noodles and eggs with bread. I had each of these options and they were very good. The food was all locally sourced and it tasted so good for it!

We got dropped in Tuyen Quan by the homestay for 400,000 VND which was about an hours drive away where we then got a bus to Ha Giang. This was mostly because we didn’t want to get the earlier bus to Sapa as we are just not that good at getting up early, even though it would have gone from the road outside the homestay. Again, the money for this bus journey was collected a long way into the journey and it cost 100,000 VND each. The journey took about 5 hours (I think but can’t fully remember) and was absolutely beautiful. I was intending to use this journey to add more to this blog post, but kept getting distracted and just not wanting to do anything but look out the window.

We did not have any accommodation booked for the 3rd December, which is the first time we have gone somewhere without knowing where we would be staying, although this has been the case for most days since then too. Ha Giang is quite a popular destination and we were told and saw briefly online that there were plenty of places to choose from. We ended up in Creekside Homestay and also rented the bike from there too as he offered a reduction because we stayed the night. The guy who owned it was super helpful and spent some time going through the map with us and recommending homestays and a route that would fit our schedule with extra bits if we had time on certain days. He leant Alex his own helmet as it was the only one that was big enough and said if we had any issue at all while doing the Ha Giang loop to contact him; even if we got stopped by police, as he had a contact. The accomodation was nice but still under construction – it had changed quite drastically in the week we were gone. The bathrooms were shared but really nicely decorated. We unfortunately went out for a very disappointing pizza as we had not realised that dinner would have been included with the family. They were still eating when we got back and asked us to join them and eat a bit of what was remaining, and drink some rice wine with them. I would recommend this homestay to other travellers.

We set off on the bike in the direction that was recommended and stayed in the place that he had suggested, 2A homestay (4th December). The food here was very good. Although it felt a bit strange as the family just left the table as we were still eating and then were nowhere to be seen for the rest of the evening. We had hoped to play pool, or try the delicious looking vats of honeyed alcohol but they were not around to ask for the balls or a taste. I went to the dorm room to borrow more bedding as the bed was hard, and it was freezing, so we wanted to sleep between duvets and while I was there I thought it would be good to have extra pillows as well. We used the sleeping between duvets trick a few times whilst doing the Ha Giang Loop.

We set off on the Ha Giang Loop slightly after some friends we had made in Vu Linh Homestay and were going the same direction around the loop. We decided to then cut South to Du Gia so we could spend more time with them and then just do a figure of 8. This journey was not far from where we were staying and we personally loved this road (DT182). It was one of our favourites on the loop, and it wasn’t even one traditionally used for the loop. It was a good job we loved it as we ended up doing that road 3 times. We checked into Du Gia Waterfall Homestay and our friends arrived later. We partly decided on this place as it had a fire outside which definitely helped us stay warmer. The surroundings here were absolutely spectaular. We had the family dinner here which again was very good food (100,000 VND). We woke up and the weather was so lovely and warm, unlike previous days had been in the loop so we were all very excited to just sit in the sun. We were all keen to go to the waterfall but time was ticking on, so decided we would stay another night at this homestay so we didn’t have to rush anywhere on the bikes (5th-6th December).

We parted ways after a few miles on the route we loved and we set off to Meo Vac where we ended up staying at Little Yens Homestay (7th December). Again the dinner, and breakfast here were really good, although unlike most places, it was totally vegetarian. We went out for a few drinks after dinner and had some trouble waking the staff so we could get back in as we didn’t realise the door would be locked. The hostel was quite nice. There was lots of helpful information in the reception about what was nearby.

From here we drove around to Dong Van and stayed at Green Karst Hostel and Bar (8th December), which was just the first place we saw. There was kareoke playing until midnight and then weird trance music playing early in the morning. Although, there was the option for bacon at breakfast which was exciting, despite being quite small bits. This town seeemed to be really nice.

We were aiming to stay at the hotel in Pho Bang on the 9th December. We arrived and were waiting in reception for 45 mins and there was no-one to be seen to ask about getting a room. We sent a Facebook message part way through the wait but they didn’t reply until some time later when we had already left. We then went around the corner to another place we found on Google maps. It looked like no-one had stayed there in about a decade. The room that was opened up for us was really damp and mouldy and generally really run down. We decided not to stay here, despite it only being 120,000 VND (~£4). We still had enough light (just) to make it to Nha Nghi Toan Huong. We ate the family dinner here and again, it was very good. I can’t quite remember the prices but I think it was near to 500,000 VND for 1 night, 2 dinners and 2 small waters (although we didn’t drink these as these as they were not sealed and we did not know if it was filtered. They had some really cool art work on the walls in the reception area.

From here we drove back down to Du Gia and stayed at the GG Homestay (10th December). We loved it here. Again it was totally gorgeous in this area. We enjoyed a game of pool here – we could have done that in many of the other places we stayed in but just didn’t. The family dinner was really good. Breakfast was included but was just pancakes, which again was not uncommon for the places we had stayed.

From here we drove back around to Creekside Homestay as the bike was pre-booked by someone else for the following day. We stayed here again for the night of the 11th December, but even if we didn’t, they would have provided towels for a hot shower after the loop. The owner booked our bus tickets for our onward journey to Cao Bang as he said it would be cheaper than online. This cost ~330,000 VND each but can’t remember exactly. The bus journey was soo long. It was 2 buses, and we had 1 hour off the bus in a town at about noon. But otherwise we were on a bus from 8.30am untill 6.30pm. It was not so fun. We were made to sit at the back of the bus where we could not even easily see out of the window. There were a lot of road works going on so we had to stop for long periods while they completed certain sections. We made a pit stop after about 4 hours on the second bus, the lady was instructing fiercely in Vietnamese and the gist was men pee in the bushes on the right and ladies on the bushes on the left, which I found really quite funny. Alex then remenised over the luxurious service stations in Northern Ireland with great deli counters and spotless toilets.

We met an Australian couple on the bus who we shared a taxi from the bus station into the centre. They were staying at Cao Bang Eco Homestay so we decided to stay there too out of ease. We ended up staying 3 nights as we needed some downtime and there was a bit of sickness (12th-14th December).

There was a bus station at the end of the road so we managed to get a bus to Ban Gioc from there. This bus took about 2 and a half hours and cost 70,000 VND each. We stayed at Nguom Ngao Ban Gioc Homestay as our friends had recommended it. We stayed here for 4 nights (15th-18th December). It was a lovely homestay and the staff were very friendly, despite limited English. The food here was again delicious. It was an easy walk to the waterfall and cave from this homestay and the surrounding area was gorgeous.

We then got the bus back to Cao Bang and stayed at the Cao Bang Eco stay again, for 2 nights as we didn’t decide on onward travel early enough (19th-20th December).

From here we got our first sleeper bus to Thai Nguyen, which is just a bit North of Hanoi as we were not quite ready for the big city again just yet but are heading back that way for Christmas. We stayed at Nam homestay or 2 nights (21st-22nd December).

The son of the homestay here arranged for us to get a private car back to Hanoi on the 23rd. I think he over charged us as it was 300,000 VND and Alex thought the son agreed on a lower price, but nevermind. We have booked in to RedDoorz Yen Phu as this was a lot cheaper than the RedDoorz Plus near West Lake that we wanted to stay at again. After 1 night, I can confirm that the other hotel was better, less noisy and a more comfortable mattress, but this one is not too bad. We have booked this hotel for 4 nights at the moment (23rd – 26th December) but we may leave on the 26th to go to an island with our friends.

Siagon
Our first stop in Vietnam was Siagon, AKA Ho Chi Minh City in the Southern part of the country. The airport felt pretty large and it took ages to get from the landing gate to the immigration check. We got accosted by some men selling sim cards. It was the middle of the night and we ended up buying one, they asked how long we were in Vietnam for but it seemed they were not really listening to our reply as they were trying to get more customers. Turned out the sim card was only valid for 1 month, and was a bit more than we paid for the second month long sim card, but it served us well enough during this time. At the airport we paid $14 USD (~324,000 VND) and got change in Vietnamese Dong. The next sim card we bought cost about 270,000 VND we think from Vietell although there were cheaper options for the month.

Whilst in Siagon we spent a lot of time just walking around the city. We explored several markets, including the underground central market, as well as the Ben Thanh Street Food Market where there was loads of choice for quite cheap and tasty food. There was another indoor market (Ben Thanh) which was huge. This is where Alex brought a beautiful chess set, but it was not a relaxing experience. People were aggressively trying to sell you whatever it was on their stalls. The ally ways through the market were also pretty tiny.

There was one street (Bui Vien – walking street) that was particularly crazy. It was so different between night and day, it was barely recognisable. Day time looked quite normal, just lots of bars, restaurants, and massage parlours. By night, there were bright flashing lights everywhere, and the road was mostly closed for traffic, although bikes still squeeze there way between people. There were entertainers fire breathing, and others just hanging out with massive snakes wrapped around their necks. Every bar and most restaurants had hot vietnamese DJs blasting electronic dance music, and often there were 2 sexy girls dancing on a stage; but there was no real dance floor for customers – just people sat around tables watching the girls dancing. It was very strange but also very interesting to walk through the street. It felt like sensation overload.

In the parks we saw people playing hacky sack every day, there seemed to be bonus points for style – with people kicking it from behind their heads, or from a handstand, or through their arms. It was cool to watch them playing.

We went up the sky deck which was nice to see down over the city. This building was based upon the shape of a lotus flower which is a key flower in Vietnam. They use lotus for food, and tea, as well as medicines and other things – it is a symbol of hope and optimism for the future as it grows out of muddy water. It was interesting to read how the building was made with many oddly shaped glass panels and reinforcement for the helipad. Enterance cost I think 200,000 VND each? (~£7).

After the skydeck we walked around to Temple Goddess Mariamma, which was a lovely Hindu temple in the middle of the city. It was nice to step off the busy streets of Siagon for a few minutes and into the peace of the temple.

We went for a Vietnamese style massage in a proper spa. Parts of it were great, yet other parts put me on edge a bit. Overall it was an OK massage, but personally I preferred the Swedish style massage in the Philippines. This massage included some hot stone or hot towel parts; which were a bit too hot initially and burnt a bit. Throughout the massage there were times with too much pressure, although we probably should have spoken up about this and asked them to use less pressure, but other times the pressure was good so I didn’t want those bits to lose pressure. The maseuses climed on our backs and used their knees, which was actually quite good for the most part, but again, just a tad more pressure than would have been ideal. We paid ~£15 each for 75min in a proper spa, but there were many places lining streets offering massages for less. You could not walk down the street without being offered massages. Although the reviews were not so good and seemed a bit seedier – it seemed they may possibly offer a happy ending, but I couldn’t say for sure…

We went to a cat café in Siagon. This is the first time I have been to one, and I thought the cats looked a bit distressed. Although I did play with the big ginger one for a long time which made me feel better.

From Siagon we did a day tour to Cao Dai temple and Cu Chi tunnels. I found both parts of this tour to be very interesting and I was glad to have done both sections of the tour, although it was a long day and a lot of time spent on the bus but our tour guide was quite funny.

This tour stopped briefly at a workshop that employed victims of agent orange. They were creating beautiful artwork inlayed with stones and painted egg shells. They were quite heavy bits of art, even for the smallest size. Had we been further through our travels we may have bought some.

Cao Dai is a relatively new religion which combines aspects from I think Buddism, Hinduism, Christianity and Islam, but it might also contain aspects of other religions. Buddah is set at the top of these religions, and also at the top of the temple as apparently it offers the most to learn from.
There were some rules enforced when inside the Kingdom of Cao Dai. These included no selfies allowed in the temple, although photos were allowed to be taken of everything else – they consider it bad luck to have images of the self with the God and the temple. Another rule was that you could not walk in front of temple while service was on, this was due to not being in front of God. Some people attempted to go in front of the temple but were getting whistled at to go around the back and not across the front. Tourists were only allowed to go in certain enterances, but unfortunately we went to the toilet first so didnt see which enterance was which, and got confused by the description and layout of the building so we got it wrong 😟. We had removed our shoes, as required, and the pavement was so hot that we burnt the soles of our feet as we went up the steps; but then we heard whistles that indicated we were in the wrong place, so quickly ran back to our shoes and went to the correct enterance, with sore feet. For believers there was restrictions on which side the women could enter, but we were told that for tourists this did not matter.

Most of the believers praying were in long white gowns, with trousers, but some high ups were in blue, red or yellow. There was a group of musicians and singers on the balcony area where tourists were allowed to view from. They played while most people were praying. The believers on the ground floor sat in rigid rectangles. I saw people being asked to move in or out slightly so the rectangle was straighter. There were daily prayers, 4 times a day, at 6am, noon, 6pm and midnight. I am not sure if everyone prays every time – I believe so as the tour guide mentioned it was like the islamic religion who pray 5 times a day; but slightly different as it was 4 times.

There were some monkeys in the kingdom, but they were shooed away from the water – but I just managed to get the snap below before they fled. One of the monkeys was acting quite aggresive towards one of the guys on our tour while we waited for the bus, but fortunately the bus was not long before it arrived at this stage.

After the temple we went for lunch just down the road, in a slightly weird restaurant where they had a party going on in one section which was full of biker gangs – it was really loud and a bit head-ache inducing.

We were told we were really close to the Cambodian border here. It was just over the Black Mountain in front of us.

The Cu Chi tunnels were also very interesting. Here we learnt that they removed the rubble of the tunnels in bamboo baskets and just took it far away from tunnel and scattered it, so the enterance was not obvious to the American soldiers. It took about 20 years to build the 220km network. They had man-made mounds that looked like termite mounds that were used as airholes. They built the kitchens so they would disperse the smoke far away from where the tunnels were as well so the smoke wasn’t obvious and didnt result in them getting bombed. The tunnels were so tiny, even though we went through the ones that had been increased in size by about 40% I think for tourism. We learnt about the many traps that were used and that they changed passwords regularly so they could tell between the communists and other Vietnamese fighters. To hide from the dogs that were used to sniff them out they apprently rubbed themselves with the scent of a bitch in heat. They made sandles from car tyres and made them so they looked as if the footprints were going in the opposite direction. A lot of the network was built from people building bunkers under their homes, then joining these together until the villages were joined. They had several sections in the tunnels including sleeping bunkers with hammocks, kitchen bunkers and fighting bunkers, and then lots of connecting tunnels.

Like the Philippines, there seems to be crazy road rules in Vietnam. The tour guide that we had for our day trip to the temple and tunnels said that Siagon had 8 million bikes in the city, and the population was about 13.5 million I believe. This meant that crossing the road here was often intimidating, although this seems to be the same pretty much everywhere in Vietnam, it was just particularly bad in Siagon due to the number of bikes. The trick seems to be that you just have to look, vaguely wait for a gap, but ultimately just go and hope not to die. Some people hold their hands out as they walk across the road, but I am not sure if this helps. You need to still look in all directions when the green man shows as there is still a lot of traffic – particularly turning right from a red light, but it can be coming from any direction. General road rules like red lights and direction of traffic seem to be more advisory than compulsory.

Whilst in Siagon, we both managed to do some jiu jitsu at Jiboia BJJ and I also did some pole dance at Pretty Pole. Alex was very excited by the fact that there were 2 black belts in at Jiboia as well as other high level jiu jitsu practioners. Both Jiboia and Pretty Pole were very welcoming to new people who were just passing through, and I had a great time at both. We might still return South and train in both places again before time is out in Vietnam, although this is looking less likely now.

The first day I tried to go to pole class at Pretty Pole, I got horrendously lost as my phone had been on its way out for a long time, and my maps would often play up and not find where I was. I was actually on the right street, although my phone did its usual thing and put me in a completely different place and I got confused so I ended up turning around as I thought by the time I would have found the class, it would have been mostly over. But then, unfortunately, I could not find the allyways I needed to get back to the hotel and so I started to panic. I thought it came out on the same road as Baba’s kitchen, but that was wrong. Then I went further around and the part of the market I thought that was next to the hotel was not actually far enough around, so I couldnt find the ally there either. I walked back and forth on this street a few times and was quite upset but trying not to cry on the street. The nice guy at Baba’s kitchen tried to help me and showed me the ally there wasn’t the right one by walking around it with me. I eventually walked far enough around at the market and then it made sense, I was like, ahhh I just didnt come far enough around to find the alley I needed. So I got back to the hotel, eventually, and burst into tears on Alex. Then he was a bit too quick to take the piss and it upset me further. The next time I went to try and go to pole class I stole his sim card and booked a taxi. It still took a bit of time to find the exact door I needed as I was still not quite used to going through one business to get somewhere else and expected it on the main road and not down the side street. This was when I realised that I was actually on the right street the first time, but never mind. The day after I got horrendously lost, I got myself a new phone – which had been needed for awhile anyway and this one seems to be much better. I have sucessfully used maps on several occasions.

Alex enjoyed a variety of different coffees including egg coffee and coconut coffee etc. Apparently egg coffee was initiated in Hanoi due to price of milk being too high in North, but in the South the presence of American soldiers meant it was more readily available.

Nha Trang

Nha Trang is a nice, modern, pretty clean city right by the beach. There were big waves and huts along the beach front offering watersports. There were lots of Russian tourists in Nha Trang, lots of menus and signs were in Vietnamese and Russian. People would talk to you in Russian before English, which felt quite novel.

There was crocodile leather and meat everywhere you looked, along with lots of other exotic animal leathers. We were tempted by some of it but decided not to buy any as we didn’t really need any of it. We did try the crocodile (although one of the dishes we tried said aligator on the menu, we think it was more likely crocodile as this was so abundant). We also tried ostrich while we were here, but the crocodile was better – the ostrich was quite tough.

The reason we extended our stay in Nha Trang was because I hoping to go to a pole dance class. There was a tropical storm that meant the gym closed at the time I had intended to go and then the timetables changed to accomodate this and then it worked out that I didn’t make it this time. But I did manage to go to a yoga class and we also both used the gym when I was expecting the pole class to be. So we still got a good work out.


We went to several temples while we were here, 2 x Buddist (Tong Lam Son Tempe Lot, and Long Son Pagoda) and 1 x Hindu (Ponegar Tower). They were beautiful. The first Buddist temple didn’t feel overly welcoming though. It was quite a journey on the bike to get there and was still under construction or renovation. There were not many people there, and they didn’t speak English. But what they did say did not feel like I hope you are enjoying the temple. I think one of them was demanding money but I could not be sure and the other was probably saying you are not allowed in this section.

Da Nang
Da Nang is another beach front city. We stayed near the beach although there was plenty of the city that spread back inland and was not that close to the beach. Da Nang had many bridges connecting the inland section to the beach front section of the city. Unfortunately I did not manage to get any pictures of these bridges but I thought they were cool, particularly the dragon bridge which glowed different colours at night.

Like Nha Trang, the beach had big waves and there were some people out surfing. We were tempted to go surfing but then saw the sewage pipe lead into the sea and were a bit put off. The beach had quite a lot of litter on it initally, which may have been dragged in by the waves but I think it may also have been due to local littering. That being said, we did see people doing a beach clean up here on one of the days.

On the first day that we were feeling up to it after the lack of sleep from the night train and resulting illness, we went to the museum of cham scuptures. The taxi driver said this was only for Chinese tourists and not very good, and that they didn’t really like the Chinese. I thought this was quite an interesting thing to say. He offered to wait for us to then take us to the biggest Buddist statue in Vietnam afterwards. He then seemed a bit annoyed that we didn’t want to go there when we were done at the museum as Alex was still not feeling very good at all.

We did make it up to this temple though (Chùa Linh Ứng) and it was gorgeous. The main statue stands 67m high and is very impressive. There are huge grounds and many other shrines and statues and lovely garden areas. We had been to a few other temples, but this was by far the most impressive. We made the comparisson of a small village church to a huge Cathedral. I really love dragons and there are loads at all of the temples we have been to, which I find very exciting. On one of the shrine buildings we worked out that there must have been at least 74 dragons, it was a 9 layered, 8 sided building with a dragon on each of those points. Then there were two big dragons going up the steps to the shrine. I also really enjoyed seeing all the different Buddah statues, so many different faces and sizes. Some with animal figurines, some stand alone, some fat, some boney. It has made me want to learn more about Buddism.

We also went to Marble Mountains and looked around the temple there. We took the elevator up and then walked down. It was cool to see the Buddhist statues in the cave here.

While in Da Nang, I managed to go to another pole dance class at Da Nang Pole Surya. I nearly didn’t make this class as I had a lot of trouble with the Grab taxis this day. I had borrowed Alex’s sim card and ordered a taxi, the first one waited a few minutes then asked me to cancel. Then the second one just didn’t seem to find where I was and the third never came. I went back to the hotel room and complained about this to Alex and he encouraged me just to go in a different taxi as there was plenty around. I had missed about 10 minutes of the warm up by the time I got there, but the lady taking the class was lovely and very accomodating. The warm up was pretty hard, despite missing the beginning. This studio was small and modest as it was upstairs in a house, it contained 2 poles and big mirrors. I had a great work out here and enjoyed the session a lot – I was glad I made it to the class. Although I had more issues getting a Grab taxi back again, the pick up point was no-where near where I actually was so I had to cancel the first taxi again and retry. Before this I had not realised that the pick up point was not always necessarily automatically where you were – which may have accounted for some of the previous trouble, but I can’t say for sure.

For Alex’s birthday we decided to go to the Ba Na Hills and see the Golden Bridge. We thought we were going to spend a nice day in the mountains, surrounded by nature and go for a nice walk along the bridge. At this stage, we did not realise that it was a complete tourist trap and expensive resort, built purely for snaps for Instagram. We hired a car as we thought this would give us a tour around the mountains. The taxi cost 500,000 VND I believe. The driver pulled over about half way there so we could get tickets (750,000 VND each). We were very confused about what this was for. Eventually we were able to communicate enough to understand that we needed to go on the cable car, which would take about half an hour through the jungle and that this was the only way to get there. If we had realised this we would have hired a bike, or not gone at all. We decided to keep going but it was so far from how we had intended to spend the day. We got a sushi buffet for lunch as all food was about 300,000 VND a head and we thought all you can eat sushi was the best option for this price. We wondered around the resort for awhile and eventually found the Golden Bridge. It was a lot smaller than we thought from photos we had seen. It was quite funny to see the queue for the photo deck looking out across the bridge. The second time we walked over the bridge we played dodge the tourist so we had crossed it in across about 30 seconds.

Hanoi
One of our first thoughts on Hanoi was that it was very poluted here. Like a lot of places in Vietnam, there are lots of small fires to get rid of rubbish, although due to larger population and more buildings trapping the smoke, as well as lots of traffic, it seemed particularly bad here. It is mostly for this reason that we have decided to only spend a few days in this city at any given time and then to keep escaping to other countryside areas. The air quality in Hanoi makes us both feel unwell, it disrupts our digestion as well as making us cough lots.

On our approach to the city the first timewe saw streams of motorbikes going the wrong way down a dual carridgeway, some with tiny children on the back. The driving here just is so different to at home. We joke around by saying their rules are “if I can, I go”.

We got to Hanoi for the first time on a Friday night and had a few more drinks than we should have at a lovely cocktail bar near the lake called “Lang Thang Coffee and More”. They had a really cute hand drawn menu and really tasty cocktails. Unfortunately, I was then in bed for most of Saturday – feeling pretty rough. It was so bad I thought it might have been food poisening at one stage but I can not be sure either way. Some of our friends were going to a lake about an hour out of the city and I was gutted to have missed it. We did make it out for a Western style brunch but struggled to eat it and we both felt even worse after; despite having English breakfast tea which usually makes everything better. That evening we did make it out with Alex’s friends who had been to the lake during the day along with some others, they were all very lovely. I chose not to have any alcohol, or food, as I was still feeling quite fragile. We went to the old quarter and through some crazy busy streets. One lady was trying to drag her suitcase through a street that was crammed full of people eating and drinking and just trying to get through. I felt she made a mistake trying to go through that particular street when there were other streets that went around the same one.

Our friend Thom showed us a lot of the city, by foot and also a DIY style bike tour on the bike he leant us. We walked through the grounds of Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum and then on a big loop. On the Thom-directed bike tour we went to a restaurant by the river for lunch. When we got there about 6 staff swarmed around us on our table until we ordered. Their English wasn’t great and even with so many of them taking the order, it was still wrong when it came out, but it was OK. You have to expect some translational errors when you don’t speak the language. We drove along the railway bridge and around Banana island (named this for the tourists, although not sure what the actual name is) and then back into the city.

Thom and Rachel live in a great appartment with a penthouse view across West Lake. It was quite a view with nothing blocking it most of the way around. Although, from here you can see the haze of polution across the lake, which is sometimes worse than others. From here you could see the golf putting into the lake, which we did one day at sunset and was quite fun.

We also hired a bike one day and went for another ride around the city, it was a terrible bike but we went into old town and got Alex a new big rucksack as his was starting to fall apart after more than a decade of use, as well as some long sleeved tops. The backpack has some nifty features for backpacking such as zip off bum-bag and day sack, a zip that goes all the way around to help getting stuff in and out and zip away straps. We found a cool Rastafarian themed bar and stopped for a drink.

There was one day in Hanoi where our friend Ozzy had family visiting and we all went to see the water puppets at the Thang Long Water Puppet Theatre. It was thoroughly entertaining and we really enjoyed it, despite not understanding the words. I would highly recommend this for other travellers. Ticket prices were between 100,000 -200,000 VND (~£3.30-£6.60) depending on how close to the stage you were.

After we had been to the water puppets we were caught by a hostel giving out free beer. We were planning on going for a nap before going back out for dinner with Ozzy and his family and Tien but then several free beers later and we were on the rooftop bar ordering BOGOF gin and tonics, as long as the females ordered it – they had a theory that more women in the bar would bring more men in. It may be sexist, but it meant really cheap GnTs so I wasn’t complaining.

Food worth mentioning in Hanoi
A few times we have eaten at a vegan buffet called Veggie Castle, this was near to where we were staying the first time in Hanoi. It was pretty good food and pretty reasonably priced (70,000 VND I think, ~£2.30) and we definitely enjoyed a plate full of vegetables as we tend to eat a lot of meat in Asia.

One evening we went for an Indian with Thom and Rachel overlooking West Lake at Foodshop 45. It was really good food, and we were very full when we left.

I have been dreaming of the Mexican restaurant we went to, Hanoi Taco Bar – West Lake. The food here was so good. It was the best nachos we have ever ordered from a restaurant and the burrito was also very tasty. Although the nachos came out a lot quicker than the burrito so I was sat waiting and watching Alex eat for ages which was painful. He did give me a few nachos to ease the pain a bit, but he had finished by the time mine arrived, and it was a big plate of nachos.

Another thing I have been dreaming of is the coconut icecream we had on Quang Khan Road. It was served in a coconut and had shredded coconut and desicrated coconut on top and it was the best desert I have had in a long time.

Hanoi Sandwich House is a place near the RedDoorz that did very good sandwiches with a choice of tasty bread. It is not the cheapest food, but still not too bad. I think most of the sandwiches were about 90,000 VND (~£3).

We also had a good meal at Republic. I saw lamb on the menu and was instantly taken, I swapped the sauce for onion gravy that was offered with the bangers and mash and it was delicious. Alex had fish and super chunky chips. This was however a very expensive meal – about £10 a head, so I would not recommend this place so much if you are on a tight budget. We ended up here quite late and decided just to have an expensive meal rather than go somewhere else.

Bia Hoi’s tend to have pretty good food and are a way of getting a cheap meal and cheap beer. We have been to a few and they all seem to be similar, but pretty decent.

Ninh Binh
As soon as we got to Ninh Binh, we noticed that the air was cleaner, the views were amazing, the streets were less busy and the restaurants and bars were good and generally the town had a cool vibe.

The first night here we went to the Buddah Bowl which was a vegan/vegetarian restaurant that had opened that evening and we had a great meal and glass of wine. There seemed to be quite a few vegan restaurants in the town, with more offering vegan options but not the entire menu. One of the places that looked to be vegan, “The Long Vegan Restaurant” had a whole vegan menu, but then also another, meaty menu which I hadn’t realised when we initally sat down and thought this menu doesn’t seem overly vegan friendly….

The lake in the centre of town had a parking lot next to it, which had party buses parked up each night which we saw every evening but only went onto one of them on the last evening we were in Tam Coc. During the day these buses were in a parking lot around the corner.

While we were in Tam Coc we explored the local area by foot, motorbike, bicycle and boat. It was such a cool town.
We hired a motorbike from a local rental place in the town that cost 100,000 VND per day. The homestays were renting them at 120,000 per day and generally they seemed to be less well maintained than from the specific bike rental places.

The first day we rented the motorbike, we went to Bich Dong Pagoda and then just drove around the cool landscape. We then ended up in the Thung Nham Bird Park. We clambered through the Mermaid Cave on the bamboo bridge. It was very tiny at points and meant we were on all fours going through parts of it. I didn’t realise how long the cave was. Initally I thought it was just the first loop and so thought that much clambering would be fun. Then we got back to the section by the enterance and the bridge didn’t link up to the enterance which I didn’t notice when initally sizing up the cave, so we had to keep going around for quite a lot longer. My legs were shakey and sore after all the clambering, but it was fun. We then walked around to the thousand year old tree, which was a lot smaller than we were expecting. We had to get the bike back before the garage shut so didn’t get to explore all of the Bird Park but did make it back another time with some friends we met at the homestay. We all hired bicycles and rode out to it and got around to the observation deck in time to see the birds returning home to nest for the evening. It was mostly pretty flat and a lovely way to spend the day. There was a small hill with 10% incline signs on both sides which was incredibly hard with a 1 geared bike and over a decade of not being on a bike – but the distance was not too long so we made it. On the way back I got as much momentum as possible before the hill and then still had to get off and walk to the top. I noticed when I was near the top, that the group had stopped near the bottom of the hill and decided I would get my bike to the top and then walk down to them rather than try to cycle that hill twice! It turned out that the chain from Alex’s bike had come loose but they had pretty much fixed it by the time I got to them.

We decided to walk out about 7 or 8km to Trang An boat tours. It was pretty hot that day so we stopped at a lovely cafe for a cold drink and general cool off and looked out across the water and beautiful mountain view. We got to the tour mid afternoon and selected for tour 3 which had some pagodas like the other two options, and mountains but the selling point for us was the long cave. The first cave was so long and totally awesome and I would recommend this trip for it. We were already a little fatigued with pagodas so were happy with this tour rather than one that was heavier on the pagodas. During the boat trip, we had to duck a lot to avoid the stalactite and stalagmite formations. It opened up into big caverns a few times and we could hear people singing on other boats and listening to the returning echos.

Whilst in Tam Coc we also went to the Hang Mua tourist attraction. It is advertised as a cave although the main attraction is at the top of the 500 steps up the mountain and looking out across the spectacular view. We didn’t even go into the cave as we did the climb up first and as we got to the cave a lady was coming out and just said “more steps”. We looked at each other with our trembly legs and decided against it and went for a cold fresh coconut instead. I have to say, I didn’t enjoy the climb up so much, Alex actually described me as a “sour puss” at one stage. I was hot and bothered and felt particularly tired that morning, but the view from the top was amazing and I am glad we did it, despite it being challenging.

After this we went across to the Tam Quan Hoa Lu Ancient Capital but it had been rebuilt quite recently so didn’t feel too ancient. We were both very tired after all these steps so didn’t really want to explore that much and we didn’t go around all of it.

We had one day where we drove out to Van Long Wetland Nature Reserve, found a tiny bit of shade under a hut right on the water and just sat with binoculars scouring the scenery for birds and wildlife. It was lovely and relaxing to just be, sitting and looking out into nature. There were some boat tours going from near us and one lady came to check if we wanted a tour, but we were happy just sitting at the waters edge in the shade. If we had gone out into the water it would have been very exposed.

There were a couple of days of bad weather while we were in Tam Coc so we didn’t really do too much. I am not the best at just not doing anything, it is something I am working on a bit personally. It is OK if I know that it is a write-off day, but if I expect that we will do something later on I am always pestering Alex with questions about what will we do, what will we take with us, how will we get there etc, which irritates him to no end.

Thac Ba
Thac Ba lake is a man-made lake for hydroelectric power. There are 1331 islands appearing from the lake which make it a very beautiful area to visit. While we were in Thac Ba, we explored the area on foot, by boat and also rented a motorbike from the homestay. There was a lot of rice wine, and it felt quite forceful at times, but we also leaned into it at times as well. The first night we were there we were asked/told that we would be dressing up in traditional garb and have some pictures taken of us in the village. I was OK with this as I wanted to try on the pretty, local clothing and also see the immediate area as we had got there late from the bus and it was dark when we arrived. We were all feeling a little fragile from the amount of rice wine from the night before but I still quite enjoyed it. We saw a lady making weaved shrimp catchers which was pretty cool, she worked so fast and can apparently make about 50 a day.

We did the boat trip another day when there were 7 of us. It was provided through the homestay and cost 500,000 VND per boat, and could take about 16 people, so the more people doing it, the cheaper it is. It was about a 2 hour boat ride and we stopped at an island that several of us swam around. It was a beautiful area even though it was quite a grey and misty day, if anything, this mistyness made it more mystical and appealing. We saw many water buffalo and some were on the island that we swam around but they swam to a neighboring island as we arrived.

We went for a walk one day and several of the dogs from the homestay came with us, we even picked up another dog as we walked and ended up with 4 dogs folowing us. There were some scary moments with interactions with other dogs and puppies as well as traffic. We felt responsible for these dogs despite not being able to call them back very easily. We went around the lake one way and then were blocked by a small crevice haha. We then decided to go into the village instead and ended up having a bucket of beer in a pretty garden at the kareoke bar, and then another beer in the bia hoi down the road. It was about 7km walk I believe in total and it was stunning. I loved seeing the houses around here, mostly all on stilts and very pretty in gorgeous surroundings. We had some children chasing us at one point and Issy was playing with them and chasing them back. We saw lots of really thin pieces of wood drying in the sun, which are apparently for ply wood.

We spent several days just chilling at Vu Linh Homestay in the hammocks which was lovely. Such a nice area just to relax.

We borrowed a bike and went to see the dam that created the lake, and then around to see some tea plantations and a waterfall. When we were at the waterfall we had 3 guys drive up from the local bar to have a photoshoot with us. It was quite funny but also a little uncomfortable at points. They were quite drunk and a little bit handsy. When we got back to the homestay Alex tight me some of the basics to riding a bike. I drove it back and forth around the yard quite a bit but still would not feel comfortable on a road.

Ha Giang Loop
I have already broken down where we went during the loop and as most of the time was spent driving I will not dwell to much on it. It was absolutely spectacular scenery. At times the road was quite intimidating. I was so glad I was not driving it, even in a car. Some people did this route as the first time they rode a motorbike which I think is insane! Alex loved the challenges it threw at him but he had some previous motorbike experience.

The first day we stopped at the Heaven’s Gate briefly to get some snaps, but it was too cold to hang around that high up the mountain. Later we stopped at the Lung Khuy Cave. It was quite a trek (~1.2km) from the place we parked the bike (5,000 VND) to the cave and was quite steep at some points, and the altitude made it quite hard going, but again it was stunning everywhere you looked so that definitely helped. There did seem to be another bike parking spot further around, although I am not sure how you would get there. The cave itself was one of the best caves I have been in. There was a long pathway that went around it and the shear size of the stalactites and stalagmites were just amazing. I think it was 50,000 VND to go into the cave but it maybe less.

We spent one day sunning ourselves at the Du Gia waterfall with our friends Helene, Mats and Oliver that we met at Vu Linh Homestay. We had spent most of the morning sitting in the sun at the Du Gia Waterfall Homestay, and decided we still wanted to see the waterfall but had spent too much of the day already doing very little to then get back on the bikes later. So we decided we would have a lazy day and enjoy the sun and the scenery. Most of us (appart from Mats) had a swim in the beautifully clear mountain spring water. It was pretty cold. But after a few minutes it felt glorious. Although, when I did eventually get out it took me a long time to warm up, even whilst sitting on a hot rock in the sun. We then all just sat, listening to music and working on our tans for most of the afternoon. It was such a nice way to send the day.

Because we had spent that extra day in Du Gia, we were able to check out the market on Saturday. The market was amazing and I was glad to have been able to go there. Everyone was dressed in beautiful, traditional clothing, which was also been sold on many of the stalls. The market lined the streets through the main village. Bikes and lorries were still manaing to squeeze their way through. Other items being sold were fried food, fruit, vegetables, herbs and spices, pots and pans – some were so big that we could have bathed in, bamboo, knives, and livestock. We saw some very different ways of handling the livestock to what we are used to, but then again we do not normally see it in the UK. There were live chickens being put into plastic bags, but a hole was made in the bag for the head. There was a goat being crammed into a small cage suitable for transporting on the back of the motorbike, but the cage already had ducks and chickens in the far end. There were pigs and cows being walked through the mountains and kept to the correct side of the road with a big stick, as well as one pig we saw being hog tied and put on the back of a motorbike, held in place between the driver and a passenger. It was definitely an eye opener. But generally I loved the market.

One day we stopped at the Lung Cu Flag Point. We parked our bike at the bottom of the steps and walked up. We got to the point that I thought was the top, and it turned out just to be another bike parking area and we hd not even started on the necessary steps. Again the altitude made it tough going, but we made it to the top. It was great seeing mountains in a 360° panarama from so high up. It cost maybe 50,000 VND each to go up the flagpole but maybe slightly wrong with that. We tried to get to the Chinese border just for the sake of it and to see China as it was only about 3km down the road, we got part way down this terrible, dirt track road and there was a huge boulder in the way so we decided to go no further.

We later stoped at the Hmong Royal Palace and explored for a bit. It was quite a cool old building with some furniture and artifacts but these were a bit limited. It had very low beams and roofs and I whacked my head pretty hard, and Alex told me he had whacked his pretty hard at the top of the flagpole where the steps surfaced. I think it cost 20,000 VND each fto visit the Palace.

On the last day of our loop, we stopped in the village growing marijuana plants and then later at the Lung Tam Linen Cooperative where we saw how they turned the stems of these plants into hemp for clothing and other accessories. One lady here saw us peeking our head in and was really happy to show us around. She showed us a step-by-step guide of the process and it was really interesting and fun to see in action. The bark is stripped from the stems and then split down to thin fibres, it is damped and twisted together to make a string. This is then boiled and dried, which seems to get rid of most of the brown colouring from the bark leaving a pale coloured string which is then spun around big square contraptions in order to dry. Then this is made into cloth at the loom where the lady was trimming all split ends carefully first. Then this seemes to be ironed by a lady on a big stone balance board rocking back and forth over the cloth and a round piece of wood. At some stage this could then be dyed and decorated with painted beeswax and all natural colourings including bark of different plants and leaves etc to create browns, oranges, blues etc. We saw some ladies stitching bits together to create final products and then also explored the shop where they had bags, tops, coasters, pillow cases and table runners. It was very labour intensive, but the finished product looked great. The shop was an array of beautifully hand crafted hemp products. The lady here showed us which symbols meant friend, couple, family and lucky. She also dressed Alex up in the long gown and made him play the traditional instrument while she filmed him. There were signs up asking people not to take pictures in here otherwise I would have taken one of this. We would have loved to have bought more but were limited by the amount of cash we had with us, as they did not accept card. I thoroughly enjoyed visiting this place and seeing how this was done and would recommend to other travellers. We did spent a bit of time going up and down the same street trying to find the venue but it was worth it. Turned out it was just the 2 corner buildings leading onto that street.

The Ha Giang Loop was rather cold being quite Northern, mountainous and winter time. Even when the sun was out the time on the bike could be pretty chilly. We bought ourselves hats at the Du Gia market and I got myself a thicker scarf at the flagpole. I wore leggings (sometimes a short and a long pair) under the thickest pair of trousers I had and sometimes 5 layers on my top half. The high mountains meant that the sun went down pretty early in the day so the evenings were also very cold. Sometimes there were fires to get warmer by, other times rice wine was used. Some of the homestays were really drafty, they had big holes where ceiling met walls and general gaps in the floors and walls as well. They are set up well for keeping cool in summer, with no consideration for the winter months. In Due Gia Waterfall Homestay on the second night we managed to pin a big thick blanket to the wall, and towls over the windows which helped keep out some of the draft.

Cao Bang

In all honesty, we did not explore Cao Bang much as we were both feeling top notch while we were here. We did enjoy 3 pizzas from Pedro’s pizza, one at the restaurant, and two at the homestay as it offered free delivery. They were good, skinny based, pizzas and I would recommend. We also ate at Com Thu Ngan as we were looking for vegetarian options and this place seemed to have good reviews and offer buffet style so you could pick just veg or not.

I went to Joy Fitness and Yoga centre for a drop in yoga class (35,000 VND). This was my first class that I didn’t understand a word, but I managed to copy most moves. There were some hard, and interesting moves that I had never done before. It was a good class although I had some eye strain throughout the day and some moves really aggregated it and sent and splitting pain down my face. The end of the class seemed to be freestyle and then people just got up and walked away. I found this quite strange, but I also just wanted to get back at this point due to my eye hurting pretty bad.

Ban Gioc

We took it really easy at Ban Gioc. We loved just being on the balcony or bridge at the homestay, looking out across the beautiful cliffs, stream and village. One day we went to the waterfall which was stunning. It cost 45,000 VND to get into the waterfall. We spent a fair bit of time just sat under a tree, in the sun, watching the water tumble over the edge and counting how long it took to fall to the pool below. There was a white horse with a colouful blanket at the falls that looked a bit Mexican, on the way out we saw a photo of someone dressed as a cowboy with a gun on the horse and found it quite funny. There were lots of water buffalo here and it was fun watching them. There was one that kept putting its head on the backs of others and trying to sleep in the water, but this made them both sink and scramble around. It tried this with several of the buffalo before they all got bored and moved away. It was quite cool to see China on the other side of the river. Although we would have loved to swim here and felt that this was not allowed probably due to the border.

They were selling roasted chestnuts here – I love roasted chestnuts, and I was thinking I would probably not get to have any this Christmas time so was delighted to find them at them falls. They were 80,000 VND per kilogram, so we’re got 1kg and ate them over the next few days.

The guy at the homestay had told us (using Google translate) that there were steps leading up the mountain. We tried to find these, but could not see steps anywhere. We suspect that it may have been an error with translate and he meant you could just climb, but we thought we would pass on this at this time so went around to Nguom Ngao Cave / Tiger cave.

I was doing a YouTube yoga video one day on the balcony and was later asked if it was Yoga with Adriene. Turned out the other people staying here also loved this channel, so the next day we all did a couple of her videos, we got another guy who was staying there to join us as well so there were 5 of us on the balcony stretching and flexing. It was great fun.

Thai Nguyen

We arrived here with perfect timing. The owners of the homestay had a large family gathering for Soldier’s Day as he used to be a well decorated soldier. This meant we got treated to a huge, delicious family dinner. Then the next day we went to see the military display. It was quite impressive. Although, we felt like as much of an attraction as the display itself. I think they don’t see too many white people in these parts.

Transport
In the first train we got from Siagon to Nha Trang, my seat was a bit broken and the foot pannel would not close which meant I didn’t have as much space as I should have had. Alex was also spilling into my side of the seat so we were exchanging a lot of heat. It was not the most comfortable ride, but there was quite a lot of leg room. It was supposed to be air conditioned, and you could feel this by the door when you went to the toilet, although at the seats this seemed to be broken. The “entertainment” seemed to be a Vietnamese soap opera in a play format which was sung. It was playing so loudly it gave me a bit of a headache. Luckily we had purchased a headphone splitter before we left the UK so I managed to drown out most of the TV with Z-nation which was what Alex was watching on this journey. I haven’t followed all of this series but have seen some of it. I was very tired though so when I was plugged in I pretty much fell asleep immediately. It still didn’t drown out the noise entirely but it helped my head.

On the sleeper train from Nha Trang to Da Nang, the beds were perpendicular to the train length and the rocking of the train was felt really badly, along with the harsh stops and starts. The Vietnamese tannoy also meant it was hard to sleep. Although, there was no aweful Vietnamese TV on so loud you could barely think, so that was a plus of getting the bed over the seat. But I definitely slept better in the seat when we used the headphone splitter after I was plugged in. The beds on the sleeper train were too short for me, let alone for Alex. My head was touching the wall and so were my feet when I laid on my back. The matress was quite hard, so laying on my side hurt my hips a bit. Overall, we have decided that the sleeper train was not worth it and we will not be doing it again.

The bus jounrneys have been quite cramped for tall people but to varying degrees, sometimes my legs would not fit and other times there was just about enough room for my legs, but maybe not for Alex’s. The payment seems to be taken part way through the bus journey unless already paid for which was very strange to me to start with but this was because I was expecting to pay at what seemes to be the ticket booth. The bus journeys we have been on are quite long. It is worth taking snacks and water, although limit the drinking of the water as you just don’t know when there will be a stop you can use the toilet, or hedge. Some of the bus journeys have been quite pleasant to just look out the window. Although the second bus we got on to Cao Bang we were made to sit at the back and so could not see the gorgeous scenery unless we strained our necks. The drivers tend to honk their horns a lot, and overtake anywhere they like, without necessarily listening for replies to beeps in on-coming traffic. The buses can be quite bumpy rides generally. Another very strange thing about the buses is that they seem to pick up and drop off almost wherever you would like (as long as someone has conveyed this to them in Vietnamese) but this can mean that the bus is driving around for a long time in the same area to pick up initial passengers. They also act as a postal service and pick up packages and deliver them on route.

The sleeper buses are a bit more comfortable than the mini van style buses, although they are a bit short in the leg section to straighten the legs entirely. I would recommend putting any unnecessary items underneath the bus as storage space is quite limited on board. We had to take our shoes off and had them in a plastic bag. There was a blanket and a pillow on each of the seats, although my pillow was missing after the first stop. There were people lining the walkways on the bus. It was really full. There was a symphony of coughing, spluttering and vomiting. I tried to drown this out with music, but could still hear it. Unlike some of the regular buses, it stopped at 2 places where people could buy food and had squat toilets, not just bushes.

People
The Vietnamese poeple are clearly incredibly hard working, they work hard from such a young age through to when they look really old, and they age really well, so when they look old, they must be REALLY old. You see really young kids helping in the fields, or fixing the roads on the edge of a mountain, or chopping bamboo with sharp knives, driving motorbikes and looking after the even younger children, or possibly looking after the livestock. You see both the really young and really old carrying large, heavy amounts of bamboo, wood or other loads up and down mountains. They seem to grow up really fast, because they have to.

People seem to be setting up businesses and pulling themselves out of poverty all over Vietnam, but particularly noticiable in the North with large amounts of Homestays being seen in most town. A lot of the buildings are very skinny, tall and deep – apparently shops used to be taxed on the width of the shop front which is why they adopted this design and are now quite popular for new buildings.

It is quite strange to see the hammer and sickle communist flag everywhere, particularly when there is a KFC immediately behind it.

Vietnamese is quite a harsh language to listen to, and they all seem to shout rather than speak a lot of the time. This can be a bit irritating and also the cause of headaches, especially when in a close environment like on public transport.

Farming
Like the Philippines, the farming practices seem to be very local, particularly in the Northern parts of Vietnam. But this leads to some incredible, fresh, delicious food – which is great!

All of the livestock seem to be fully free-range, with cows, chickens and goats roaming where ever they like, sometimes in the middle of busy roads.

Again they dry things on tarpaulin in the road such as rice and corn.

Bananas seem to grow everywhere in Vietnam which is cool as you quite often get them alongside a meal, and they are delicious. They have so much more flavour than the ones we buy back at home. They tend to be a lot smaller, and straighter bananas, but they are yummy. Other fruit such as papaya also seems to be quite common, when we were in Vu Linh we had a really tasty freshly picked papaya salad.

In conclusion, we have loved the North of Vietnam – it is beautiful and mountainous, and we both love mountains. We still enjoyed the South of Vietnam but would say to travellers with less time who are planning a trip here, they may prefer to plan to spend more time in the Northern regions.

We will be spending Christmas in Hanoi with some friends. We went for dinner last night and had mulled wine which felt nice and Christmassy. It is strange not being with family at Christmas time. We will be heading to Cat Ba for a festival for New Years Eve when our friend Sam will be joining us. After this we will head to Hoi An to see more friends we have met here and get some clothes tailored. After Vietnam, it seems likely that we will head to Bali for relaxation, surfing and snorkeling – although we may decide Cambodia makes more logistical sense.

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Happy Christmas to you all and Happy New Year. If you don’t celebrate these, then I hope you have a good day on whatever day you read this.

Philippines

Disclaimer: this is a long blog post, but I hope you find it interesting / entertaining / useful if you are planning your own trip.

Pretty drinks and beautiful sunsets at least partly sum up our visit to the Philippines

Right, wow… where should I start? We have seen, done, explored and eaten lots and had an amazing month and we are a bit sad to be leaving, but also excited for the next stage of our adventures.

I have to admit, we were dubious as to whether to come to the Philippines with the way it is sometimes presented in Western media, but we are so glad we did. There are areas that our government has advised against travel to, and although there are some really interesting looking places in those restricted areas, there’s definitely enough to be doing without needing to void the travel insurance. Some of the locals were saying there is more than 7500 islands, although the exact number depends on the state of the tides. More than 3000 of the islands are apparently inhabited. So this meant there was definitely enough to keep us occupied. We actually don’t think a month was long enough here and are hoping to come back after we have done a loop around SE Asia, vaguely from Malaysia. We want to visit some of the areas we didn’t get around to this time, such as Palawan, and possibly revisit some of the areas we did go to.

I think I will start by giving you a breakdown of the timings we spent where and later go into some more detail about specifics of most places. But before I do I will just say that for a lot of our trip 65 pesos (P) = ~ £1.

We arrived in Manila on the 20th September and stayed at the Red Planet, Binondo for 3 nights. This hotel was nice enough and we stayed in the room for a lot of the time we were in Manila but I will go into that more later.

We then caught a flight to Cebu City with Air Asia and then a bus into the centre. We stayed at AllSon’s Inn for 3 nights (23rd -25th September). This hotel was cheap and cheerful, but had a lovely rooftop bar and also a spa and a gym, but of these, we only visited the rooftop bar. I would also like to mention the pizzeria across the road from this hotel was really good. The pizza was delicious and the venue had a lovely rustic feel.

Then we used Grab taxi’s to get to Moalboal as this seemed to be the cheapest taxi option, although the driver did ask for more to cover the return journey as there would be no passengers for him to take back so it worked out about the same as some of the other options we had seen. We stayed here for 1 week (26th September – 2nd October) at Maya’s Native Garden. I have mixed feelings about this resort. It was absolutely stunning setting, the hut we were in was a beautiful wooden place which was pretty big. The garden area was very well maintained and also very pretty. And as for the surrounding area, well it was absolutely gorgeous. Saying that, there was heavy duty construction work going on immediately outside of our room which started at about 6am each day. I think maybe Sunday was an exception to the early construction works. There were also lots of cockerells running around and sometimes underneath the hut, these would make noise all through the night at times so these things made it difficult to get a good night’s sleep here. We spent a lot of the social time at the bar opposite, the Last Filling Station. If we were to return to this area we would be likely to stay in this resort instead. It had a path down to the beach area and was far enough away from the construction that I think it would not be an issue, also there was no area under the rooms for the cockerells to get into so they would likely be further away too. We made good friends with the German owner and the Philippino guy that ran Action Planet Adventure which was attached to this establishment as well as some other tourists that were also in this bar.

From here we got a Shuttle Daddy taxi to Oslob where we stayed for 4 nights (3-6th October) at Stay n Save which again had a beautiful garden area with lots of chairs, and covered areas with bean bags to sit back and relax and enjoy the beautiful ocean view. We were in one of the tree houses, which was not actually in a tree but just up some steps. It was quite a small room but it was nice enough. It had shared bathroom facilities which were small wet rooms. It had a private beach area which was lovely but was quite hard work to get to, with 229 (I believe) steps of varying widths and heights down to the beach. Although there were some stopping areas with seats/hammocks to take a rest on the way. There seemed to be someone living under our tree house in a hammock, which was a bit strange but it was fine. Just over the fence next to our room there was another cockerell, and this one was tethered so made even more noise than the free roaming ones. We were due to get a trike from here to the ferry port although another couple also needed transportation to the ferry as well so ended up with the hotel jeepney. We made good friends with this couple and spent a lot of time with them in the next island.

Then we caught a direct ferry to Siquijor island (one per day at 10am with Maayo Shipping). We had initially booked to stay at Eastern Garan Garden Resort for 3 nights but ended up extending for another night (7th -10th October). This was another place with a beautiful garden. It was definitely more aimed towards Chinese customers than English as some of their staff in the restaurant basically didn’t speak English but it was fine. Our villa was really quite big and had a sea view, with a window in the bathroom facing out to sea. It had a small private outside area with a rocking chair which also looked out to sea. There was a veranda area on top of our room, although this was less private as other guests went up there also. Immediately next to our villa was a lovely shared covered area with table and chairs and weaved hammocks and speakers that you could hook up music devices to. This area had a great view out across the ocean which faced the right way for sunset so we watched several of the sunsets from here. I also managed to do a small bit of yoga in this area. While we were in this area we met a lovely French couple who mentioned the Anda region of Bolhol was a good place to be. We were planning to go to Bolhol next but had not booked accommodation yet so we looked for some in this region, and I’m glad we did, this region was absolutely stunning.

We got an Ocean Jet ferry to Tagbilaran City on Bolhol island and then got a trike to the main bus centre. The bus to Anda wasn’t going for a few hours so we were all set to grab food and look around the market area and just wait but there was a guy who asked where we were going and directed us to a van going that way and leaving much sooner. We had heard that the van would drop you at the door of the place you intended to go so we were happy with this as it meant we didn’t have to think about further transport at the other end. This was a long and very cramped, and pretty bumpy journey. People kept getting on and off but at one point there were 17 people in the van. Our bags took up one seat as they were too big to fit under. This meant we had to buy another seat but that was OK as seats were P130 each (~£2). The van stopped a few times for people to buy fruit and other bits and pieces from random vendors. I think this journey took about 3 hours with all the stops. The trikes and the vans here are definitely not made for people of our size and we’re both quite uncomfortable to ride in, but it was an experience. The van dropped us right outside Anda Long Beach resort where we stayed for 3 nights (11th – 13th October). We got this place as it was really cheap, especially with a £20 discount from AirBnB. It worked out at about £6.50ish per night. The room was quite basic. As it was so cheap it was fine, but we won’t be staying there again. It did have a fridge, but this was not clean. The window had panes of glass missing both in the bedroom and the bathroom. This meant the efficiency of the air-conditioning was limited and more bugs could get in, despite the net on the window intended to keep them out. The key broke in the door on our second night there, which happened slightly after midnight, the lady took a while to come to the door but honestly I would have done too at this time of night. She said this had happened to one of the other rooms recently and had also happened to one of the other keys for our room as well meaning 2/3 keys were broken for that room. She gave us the master key for this room and told us to be careful as that was the last key, so if that one had broken too we would have been quite stuck.

We really liked this area but we’re not so keen to stay in this hotel for more time. We really liked the look of the Old Castle, where we had spent a lot of time at the bar and rented the bike from. We had gotten to know the owner which happened to be another German fellow. This was unfortunately a bit out of our price range, although we did end up in the sister resort owned by the same guy without even realising it until his son was there in the morning sorting dive gear. This place was called Anda-Divers-Enjoy Garden Resort. Again, this place had a nice garden area and a big pool which we unfortunately did not get a chance to swim in as we were too busy with other things. The bar area was nice here with cool art work on each wall and tables with sand and cool shells inside. We stayed here for 4 nights (14th-17th October) making 1 week in total in Anda.

We then got a trike, van, trike combo back to the ferry and got a ticket for the next ferry available to Cebu City which happened to be Ocean Jet again although there did seem to be a few options. These Ocean Jet ferries had similar rules to air travel with having to check in the big luggage and taking only one small item of baggage with you on board. On the ferry to Cebu the luggage checkin was P100 per person but I can’t remember if it was the same for the other ferry to Bolhol. The ferry cost P500 per person and the port fee was P20 per person from Bolhol to Cebu, again I forget the prices for the ferry to Bolhol but I don’t think it was much more than this, I think the port fee was P17 but the actual ferry and bag checking price I can’t remember. The port fee needed to be purchased in a different area to the main ticket in Siquijor although this could be done at the same kiosk in Bohol.

We shared a taxi with a Chinese guy who was going to the airport as our hotel was right beside the airport. This cost P600 total and took slightly over an hour, but we did have to stop for cash and it was rush hour. We stayed 1 night at Park Hill Hotel Mactan which again was very cheap and near to where we needed to be. The room again was pretty basic, and hadn’t been decorated in quite a long time by the looks of it but it did us OK for the night we were there. There was a really big spider in the room missing 2 legs when we first got there, clearly a hardy little beast. Alex got the Porter to remove it for us but it was super quick even with its missing legs. The bathroom looked a little mouldy in the grouting but the shower was nice and hot which was exactly what I wanted as my neck was stiff and sore. We went to Ricco’s Lechon restaurant just down the road from the hotel and I have to admit, we were a little disappointed with it. The rice and the meat were cold, the veg was the only hot thing that came out . There were a lot of bones and gristly bits and the price was quite high for what it was, especially with the service charge that we hadn’t considered before we sat down. This was a shame as I had enjoyed every other Lechon that we have had throughout the Philippines and always looked forward to the next time we could get it, but this place put a bit of a dampener on this.

Manila

Honestly, 3 nights in Manila was too much, but our jetlag was pretty bad so we spent a lot of time in the hotel room, which was quite a nice hotel, although I would suggest perhaps other parts of Manila might be preferable if you do need to stay here. Our taxi driver mentioned that this was not such a great area of the city as he dropped us. The taxi we got was with the recommended company at the airport and this had a fixed price (P2800 if I remember correctly which is approximately equal to £43), but we were still not used to the exchange rate and this turned out to be a total rip off as the return journey cost slightly shy of a 10th of the price when we booked a taxi through the hotel going the opposite way (P340 ish (~£5) but again this might be me slightly mis-remembered pricing). So just be careful with this and if you do need to stay in Manila maybe check if your hotel offers airport transfers and organise this before you go, or perhaps get in contact with them and ask if they can book the taxi for when you land. Or there are other transport options such as buses and jeepneys which I’ll go into more detail later, although for us we just wanted to get to where we needed to be at this stage.

The driving in Manila in particular was like something I have never experienced before. Everyone was playing chicken with horns blaring constantly, whether they were on a bike, in a car, lorry, bus etc it didn’t seem to matter, everyone keeps pushing forward into space that I didn’t even realise was there until someone stops because they can’t physically go any further without crashing, so the other vehicle wins that round. Witnessing this immediately after about a 21 hour journey time was pretty intense and a bit scary in all honesty. Generally the air quality in Manila is very poor. There is so much traffic around at any time of day or night that it hardly surprising. Both Alex and I had sore phlegmy throats for several days due to the pollution here. You see lots of people with face masks and you can understand why.

The first night we just went for food nearby the hotel in a chain restaurant but I forget the name of it. It was OK food, we weren’t expecting much from it and it fed us enough to get to sleep that night which was all we really wanted from it. We did nearly get robbed by a young ish boy on our way back to the hotel, and had he been older we probably would have found ourselves light of my bumbag or its contents. After this we were more careful and in the city I didn’t wear this again here as it drew too much attention to where my money was. I also learnt that despite them trying to be cute, don’t let people touch you.

There are some nice areas of Manila that we found though such as the Philippino – Chinese friendship bridge (which I posted a picture of in the last blog post), Fort Santiago and the bar we found which had some great live music playing and was called something like the home of music and art, although I forget the exact name. There was a plaza area where we got a very expensive litre of beer and saw people in very fancy, traditional Spanish style clothing gather to greet a performing arts conference. We also had some great food in Ying Ying Tea House and in China town (again cant quite remember the name if the restaurant here).

Cebu City

There was still a lot of traffic and pollution in Cebu City, although it was not anywhere near as bad as Manila. Again, 3 nights here may have been just too long. The beauty of the Philippines is basically not in the cities. But we learnt that lesson after this and basically stayed out of the cities from this point. Saying that, we still enjoyed our time in Cebu City. We walked around the city and found some cool spots such as Fuente Circle, Basilica Minore del Santo Niño de Cebu, and Plaza Independencia.

We also found a cool food market that had all sorts of bbq food on offer, as soon as we stepped into the place we were flooded with people trying to get our custom. This happened to locals as well, although I feel it was amplified because we are tall, white folk. Easy to spot. We walked around initially, trying to politely decline offers of discounts etc as we wanted to see what was on offer throughout the food court, then eventually settled for one near the entrance which I am fairly sure was because Alex liked the beard of the guy who owned it. It’s as good a reason as any I guess! We had a mix of pork, prawns and various fish. My favourite part of the food we had here was one of the types of marlin that we selected.  It was so tender and juicy and absolutely delicious. We had another type of marlin which was good but the one I just mentioned was divine. Unfortunately I am not sure on what the different types we had were as I would love to eat that again.

We decided to get slightly further out from the city for the second day. We were intending to get a bus to near to the Taoist Temple. As far as we could tell online, the bus should have dropped off about a 20mins walk away which we thought was perfect. The bus was in fact a jeepney but that was quite cool as we wanted to go on one of these anyway. I shall describe these more later. Anyway, the jeepney got part way and then they informed us that they were not going that way, and that we would have to get on the motorbikes (habal habal). I initially didn’t really want to get on the motorbike, I had seen loads of people missing limbs and kept thinking to myself that is maybe how it’s happened… but we got on it anyway, no helmet, no protective clothing, just summer clothes. The guy who took me was like this is your first time, yes? I nervously agreed. He kept telling me to just relax; when he initially went around a bend I was pretty terrified and think I leant away from the bend which is probably a terrible idea as it kind of misbalances the bike, he told me again to relax. Inside I was like “ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh? What am I doing? I could die. This could be how I die!” But I told myself to breath like I do in yoga and it helped. I noticed that we drove past a temple turning, which confused me somewhat. I thought there must be another entrance but we kept going for AGES and I was trying not to panic. It started to become really beautiful scenery so I tried to focus on that, and breathing. We finally arrived at the Sirao Gardens. I didn’t realise that Alex had said yes we want to go there too. It was absolutely stunning and I am glad we went but wish I had realised that was the plan before hand haha. The drivers waited for us and took us to the Temple of Leah and then waited for us again to take us back. By the third time in the bike I was fine. The actual ride was quite pleasant, but I was so nervous to get back on it each time. The drivers were very skilled and safe but it certainly got the adrenaline pumping. I didnt realuse until much later (weeks) that this was not even the temple we initially thought we were going to, but it was lovely all the same.

Moalboal

We really enjoyed our stay in Moalboal, so much that we were wondering whether to extend our stay here. Alhough I enjoyed the other places we explored too, so I’m quite glad with our decision. We bought ourselves some snorkel masks here and used them almost every day here, and some days twice. The snorkeling here was spectacular. Lots of different corals and beautiful types of fish, including puffer fish, and cleaner fish and fish of all different colours. Also there are so many turtles here! One of the days we went in the sea twice we saw about 9 of them. They are such beautiful creatures. We also saw massive school of sardines which was very impressive. Alex says he saw a seahorse here but I didnt, although I did see a sea snake. After snorkeling we would often grab a beer in Andi’s Talisay and watch the sunset. And if we weren’t here for sunset, then often we were in Chili Bar. Both of the venues had great views out across the sea, as did many of the other venues along this strip, some of which we visited but didn’t spend as much time in them.

One of our favourite things we have done, probably the entire holiday was the canyoneering at Kawasan Falls. We did this with the Planet Action Adventure. I mentioned earlier that we made friends with the guy who ran this. This happened to be the pioneering place to offer this activity in the Philippines, or at least on that island – they have been doing it for over 20 years. I have to say, you could see that the guide we had was miles better than the other guides around. Our guide made sure we knew where to put our hands/feet if we were unsure and waited for us as we went along, whereas others seemed to be oblivious to struggles and walked off ahead. In short, if you want to do this I would definitely recommend Planet Action Adventure. For those of you who are not sure what canyonering is, it involves swimming, hiking (particularly if it had been dry before hand like it had for us), scrambling over rocks and jumping into deep pools of glorious, blue, refreshing water. At Kawasan Falls there was also a rock slide, and a rope swing (which had an additional charge) and obviously, just being underneath the waterfalls. Being in the water was just the absolute best feeling. It was so cool and clear and beautiful. Then when you looked up, there was beautiful jungle. We saw some cool wildlife on this trip, including a millipede, a big frog, lots of big damsel flies, a big lizard and this great little butterfly that landed on me, along with many other beautiful birds and bugs etc. This particular canyonering option had a 1km zip line which took about 1 min, with 10 min walking rather than a 40 min walk to the first jump into the water. We were told initially that we could sit or lie flat for this, although when we got there they didn’t allow us to sit due to “safety”. I am not quite sure how this works for safety, although it was a lot of fun. There were 2 lines, and each line could hold 2 people. The zipline cost P450 each. The walk down from here was steep enough and we were both desperate to get into the water at this stage as we were so hot. Our legs were shaking going down the steep walkway, whether this was purely to do with the steepness or the adrenaline from the zip line, I am not entirely sure. Another recommendation if you want to do this is to go midweek rather than weekend as apparently it gets super busy at weekends, due to lots of Chinese tourists doing weekend trips. It was just the two of us on this tour which was minimum number required to run it, but there was another couple who did a different canyonering tour with the same company, this meant that the van dropped us at the enterance to the falls and we had to get another unexpected habal habal ride to the top of the mountain.

We were both pretty sore after this adventurous day, so the next day we went for a 1 hour, full body, Swedish, couples massage and it was delightful. So relaxing! We are both looking forward to the next massage greatly after this. This cost us P650 each (~£10). We went to the spa just opposite Venz kitchen but there are so many places here offering massages. Speaking of Venz kitchen, we went here several times as the food was great! I would definitely recommend the pork sisig from here, it was my favourite sisig we tried and it was a dish we kept coming back to over our time in the Philippines. Although all the food we tried at Venz was great, as was the mixed fruit shakes (we had mango and orange, with the vegan option of coconut milk rather than milk).

In Moalboal, but not really anywhere else, there was lots of children in the evenings (after a school) walking around with baskets of souvenirs on their heads. You’d sometimes see them on the beach picking shells and things to go into these baskets. They were quite persistent at times. There was a similar tactic used by a lot of them, “Where are you from… oh England,  the capital there is London…, what’s your name?”. Or “just look, you haven’t even looked”.

We also went to the public market in Moalboal centre and got some great, interesting fruit. The market was smaller than I was expecting but still fun to look around.

Oslob

Surprisingly enough, we did not go to see the whale sharks here. People seemed shocked when we said this, especially when we said we had 4 nights here. The fishermen feed the whalesharks so we weren’t sure if it was good or bad. Everyone who went said the tours were very strict and didn’t let you touch the whalesharks, and someone pointed out that instead of their lives being threatened in anyway, they were now more protected as a tourist attraction. But overall we were not sure which way to go on the matter, and also didn’t want to get up so early, so didn’t go to see them.

We did hike up to Tumulog Falls, semi unexpectedly. We were hoping to get a trike on the main road but none came along. One guy stopped and gave us a lift to the turning and said it was too steep for a trike, and we’d have to get another habal habal… we had already decided that this wasn’t something we really wanted to do so decided to walk it. It was really hard work and slow going, but we had a huge sense of achievement when we got there. The waterfall felt like well-earned bliss as it poured over us. I kept coming out from underneath it and realising I was not done yet so going back under to cool off more. It was obviously much smaller than normal due to dry weather but it was still beautiful. Alex found all sorts of things with his monkey toes in the water, including a pair of in tact sunglasses (which I have kept as a backup) and several broken sandles. We got a fresh buko (coconut) juice when we reached the gate again on the way back which helped fuel and hydrate us for the walk back. The walk back was much easier than the way there. The mountainous/sea landscape was easier to see this way so it wasn’t just daunting steep hill staring directly back at you with pretty bits if you turned sideways or backwards.

We also visited Sumilon Island, which was sold as this “don’t miss – top attraction” with lots included, like boat transfers, lunch, welcome drink, kayaking, paddle boating (which I thought was standing up paddle boarding but seemed to be more pedlo), hikes around the island, and infinity pool, free snorkel masks etc… And sure, I guess it had all of these things, but it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be, and simply way too expensive for what it was – P2500 (~£40). The kayaking/paddle boating was around a tiny lagoon in mangroves, which was lovely, although we had done the entire lagoon in about 5 mins, and we had a stop in the shade to look at the fish for awhile – bit disappointing to be honest… There may have been an option to rent clear bottom kayaks or SUP boards to take into the ocean, but I think these were additional costs. The buffet lunch was alright, but it wasn’t really what I fancied that day which was a shame. We did enjoy the infinity pool, although in the welcome video it said this was for guests staying at the resort only, but no one stopped us due to wrong type of wrist bands so we did it anyway. There was also a couple of Jacuzzis with various jet styles which we also enjoyed for awhile. We took our own snorkel masks, and this was probably the best bit of the day. It was a marine sanctuary area and the snorkeling was fantastic here. The fish were much bigger here than we had seen in Moalboal or at the private beach at the hotel in Oslob. We saw a small sting ray, and I saw some swordfish which I got very excited about and then just the biggest Angel Fish (and generally other fish) I’d ever seen! We also walked around to the sand bar which took about 10 mins and was quite nice. We then got a couple of drinks back at the bar to wait for the ferry, and they were very expensive. It was a good day, although I probably would not recommend it unless it comes down in price a lot.

Snorkeling from the private beach at Stay n Save was a bit different to Moalboal or Sumilon Island, it had pockets of coral rather than a full reef, but it was still great. We saw a turtle with parasitic fish which was quite interesting to see. I saw more swordfish here. And I also spotted 2 beautiful black and white fish fanning the coral with their flowing fins and tails, presumably for oxygenation of eggs.

The final day we were in Oslob we went to the monkey viewing platform, which is not a zoo, they are still wild – although they are fed. There were quite a lot of monkeys here and they were very cute. Some snatched the food quickly as they were still a bit unsure of humans, whereas some of the older ones were much gentler when taking the food.

From here, we went on to see the Cuartel Ruins, which were made from coral, alongside a still standing church also made of coral. We got our first full coconuts here, top sliced off, straw inside! Yummy! Then the guy hollowed them out for us to eat.

After this we went on a full blown mission to get some cash out. Our trike driver didn’t think the ATM is Oslob centre usually worked so he took us to one near to our hotel, which we hadn’t realised was there, although this didn’t work for either of us with our international cards. We then had to go back to the hotel to pick up the US dollars to then go all the way to Santander to try and exchange it. The first place we went to required a passport in order to change money, we hadn’t realised that we would need this, so this was still in the hotel. They said a place down the road might accept the driving licence so we tried it and eventually got sorted. That trike journey cost a lot more than we were hoping to spend that day, but he did help us to get sorted and drove back and forth a lot so OK. So pointers if you go to exchange cash would be to have US dollars in Asia which several friends mentioned to us and we are glad we had them as it seemed like other currencies might not be accepted, and also take your passport!

As for food in Oslob, there was a new, big, flashy restaurant called Choobi Choobi that had just opened right next to Stay n Save which we tried one night but it was very expensive and had no fans which meant there were an excessive number of flies – the food was OK here but wouldn’t recommend it. There was a better restaurant going down the hill called Cocina En Acantilado that we went to several times. We also found a Philippino bbq stall further down the hill where we both fed for about £2.

Siquijor

We got transport from Stay n Save with a couple of guys who were also going to Siquijor and we made good friends with them and spent the whole next day with them and then met for dinner on their final night after missing each other at the same venues throughout the day. We had been told it was hard to get around on this island without bike and decided that two unexpected journeys on the backs of habal habals were enough for us, so Alex hired one here.

We went to Salagdoong Beach (P40 or P50 each I think) with our new friends, after making a pit stop at the Century Old Balete Tree (P10 each I think) and having fish munch on the dead skin on our feet until we had smooth and soft feet.

We went swimming / snorkeling at the beach but it wasn’t as good as the other places we had been. We went for lunch here and then continued around to Lagaan Waterfalls (P70 I think) where we had great fun jumping into the greenish lagoon from the rope swing, or scrambling up through the cave and then jumping or sliding back into the water via the rock slide. After this we went for BBQ food. It was a good and tiring day.

The next day we didn’t meet up with our new friends until dinner but we went to a lot of the same places and just missed each other. We went to the butterfly sanctuary (P100 each I think) in the mountains then used this road to cut South East through the island.

We stopped at a proper lechon place for lunch and then went back to the Cambugahay Falls which our friends had gone immediately after arrival on the first day and recommened highly.

There were 3 levels of waterfalls, the top one had a cave, and the bottom one had swings to jump from. Here you had to pay P50 to use the swings an unlimited amount of times, and each swing had a different owner, so we picked one and stuck to it although some people went for all of them and just paid several times. I think we paid P20 to go down to the falls and then a donation to the guide and the guy watching over the bikes. This guide took lots of pics and videos for us here and watched our stuff while we were in the water. You could do these trips without a guide but we have also enjoyed having the guides at the ones we have done as they show you where to jump, and it was the guide who showed us to go up through the cave at Lagaan falls and that we could jump from that section also. They also have been helpful for me as I don’t really like walking on slippy rocks and they helped me across them.

On our last day in Siquijor, we drove the whole way around the island. In all honesty it was a bit much at times but it was interesting to explore the place and see that there were development projects happening all over the island, so I think it will become more touristy in years to come.

Bolhol

Whilst we were in Bolhol we enjoyed more time in the water, including beautifully cool cave pools, one was crystal clear (Combento – P20 each I think) and another you could jump into (Tibaw – P30 each I think), as well as the tallest waterfalls on the island, Can-umanted falls (I forget the entry price here but think it was P20 each which also may have included entry to the rice terraces, although we didn’t go so it might have been an additional charge), and obviously we spent some time in the sea also, snorkeling at the beach outside the Longbeach resort or just splashing our feet in the water while we watched the sunset at Talisay Beach which is apparently slight less well known by foreigners.

While we were snorkelling here, we saw 4 hermit crabs commencing battle for shells, it was amazing to watch. There was a big one that ripped another big one out of its shell while a little one and another big one stood near by. The little one kept getting pushed away by the big one that won the shell, then the big one that won the shell tried it on and didn’t like it so went back to its original shell but was still defending it against the little one. The little one eventually managed to get inside the bigger shell. All this time the crab without a shell was on the back of the other big one and it looked like the one with the shell was trying to shake off the shell-less one. The big one that initially won the shell tried to get the little one out of it again but the little one wasn’t budging, so the one that won it initially seemed to storm off and it was hilarious. Then the other big one with the shell tried to pull out the little one that had won it, but did not try very hard and then also walked away, still with the shell-less one on its back. Then the one without the shell realised it was getting carried away from the shells so jumped off the back of the other one and also tried to get the little one out of its original shell but it didn’t work, so it tried to get in with it, and that didn’t work either so it got back out and took the little shell and gave up. It was so funny ans bizarre to watch.

We also explored the mountain areas a bit and climbed to a viewpoint which was so steep to get to and really hard work, despite not being far from where we left the bike.

We spent 1 day exploring Lamanok Island and hearing tales of witches, spirits and shamans throughout the ages.

We were told by the French couple that recommended the Anda region that the Alicia Hills were very similar to the famous Chocolate Hills, but much closer to this region so we went there one day. We would have liked to explore more on foot here but Alex had a bad heat rash at the time and we didn’t want to aggravate it further so we didn’t hike much, just far enough to get a great view across these beautiful hills.

Our last day we drove all the way to Loboc to do the floating restaurant cruise which was an absolutely beautiful trip through the jungle. They stopped at a group of Philippino ladies playing ukuleles and dancing with bamboo. The guy also on the deck convinced me to get off and join them for the bamboo dance which was fun but quite tricky, my big feet kept standing on the bamboo.

Then we went further around to the Tarsier conservation area and saw these adorable creatures before making the long trek back to Anda. We were sarting our drive back just as it got to sunset so most of the journey was in the dark but Alex managed driving in the dark very well. The thought of wine at the Old Castle kept us going for a lot of that journey. It was a long way! In the morning we had had to stop several times due to terential downpours so we weren’t sure we were going to make it the whole way there but the rain cleared up and it was a fantastic day, just a bit sore on the buttocks.

Whilst we were in Anda we ate a few times at Coco Loco which we we thought had great food and lovely people working there. Virtually all the food options had coconuts in it in one form or another and there were some vegan options including a coconut burger. We also had a rum coconut cocktail.

We also had breakfast at the Old Castle a few times, the bread here was deliciou. We got the Old Castle special breakfast and made it into a beasty sandwich.

Transportation

Generally, the most common way of getting around is motorbikes. You can hire these almost anywhere, or if you prefer, get the habal habal but we found these journeys to be a little nerve wracking. Then there is an assortment of trikes; metal frames attached to bikes in many different ways. These seemed to be a main form of transport for many bigger things, including many people (I think we saw more than 8 people on some but they were hard to count), sometimes standing on the back or hanging out the sides, we saw someone with a 32″ flatscreen on the back of a trike going up the mountain, or massive buckets with fish or vegetables, or people absolutely laden down with sticks and twigs for firewood, we even saw singular cows in more of a side car than a trike type creation, or multiple goats in a similar bike accessory. In most places you could wait on the road and a trike would stop for you (eventually). Although you might not want to rely on this, especially if time is tight.

There are also jeepneys which is the local bus service which is basically a slightly elongated jeep with no windows, where passengers are sat facing each other. Passengers hand the money down the length of the jeepney to the driver, or assistant and then bang on the handrail when they wish to exit. Again, people would often be standing on the back of these and generally perched where they could. There were also trikes that looked like jeepney layouts, although they were generally quite a lot smaller than a jeepney. Both jeepneys and trikes were vibrantly and uniquely painted.

Buses and vans would often have similar routes which seemed to be covering more distance than the jeepneys and trikes. I believe that the buses are cheaper, although the vans will drop you at the door of your destination. That being said, the vans can be very cramped and take longer due to these stops and other stops for people to get fruit etc. Often there are air conditioned and non-air conditioned bus services, with air-conditioning generally costing a few pesos more.

Of course there are always taxis. I would recommend asking hotels to book or using services such as Grab (like Uber) in cities or possibly Shuttle Daddy which gives you a price before you go which you can pay on card or in cash I believe. Avoid taking the first taxi you see, especially at aiports or ports as these are likely to cost a lot more than they should.

Often you would see people hitching rides on top of lorries and I wonder how they got on top of them, and also how this first started.

Farming

The farming seemed very local which was nice. If you saw food on a menu, you’d be likely to see evidence of those animals living near by. Some areas had beef and dairy on menus and cows nearby whereas other places didn’t seem to have these food options, or seemingly the animals suggesting the food production is local. Often animals were tethered just to trees or buildings at the side of the road, these included cows, goats, cockerells, and pigs.

When we were in the Anda region we also saw many people drying rice on big tarpaulins at the side of the road and raking it flat, then gathering it in again before it rained.

We also saw things like firewood, and coconut shells drying at the sides of roads.

The locals

Generally the Philippino people are incredibly friendly and welcoming. They love seeing white people and chatting to them. We only got asked for 1 photo because we were white which I am almost surprised it was only 1 to be honest. Most people can speak at least reasonable English which is great for us. We got called over a couple of different times to have a drink with people. The first time it was beer from a make-shift cup cut from a plastic bottle, natually red horse which is the strongest beer usually on offer. The second time was straight rum, sometimes with ice. They ran out of ice part way through and one guy got on his motorbike to get some more, I was already feeling thr rum at this stage and they had been drinking before we got there so I doubt he was safe to drive. But the rum did taste better with ice in it! It was quite a smooth rum and we toyed with the idea of buying some and having it for Alex’s birthday but decided it was a bad idea to buy spirits.

Generally the service in the Phillipines was great. Most of the time as soon as you sit down and order, a fan is placed near you which made it way more comfortable.

Karoke is a big part of Philippino culture, it happens any time of day or night. In the Longbeach resort in Anda we were woken up with karoke at 7am one morning. You would also just be driving through the mountains in the middle of no-where and still be able to hear karoke. We met some locals who just had the day off and were about to join up with some friends they didn’t get to see often and they were meeting to go do karoke.

Other than loving to sing, they also just seemed to love having a good time. They would often be joking around with each other or you and giggling. It was really nice to see and be a part of. There should be more laughter in the world.

Food

Philippino food was generally bbq. A lot of the food had a sugary sauce on it. If you went to a local place it could be very cheap, but often tourist strips would cost a lot more.

They often only provide a fork and a spoon for eating with in the Philippines, which took some getting used to. You might get a knife if you ordered a steak but I quite like this mix of utensils now, for the most part.

Conclusions

Overall, we loved our time in the Philippines and hope to be back soon. I would absolutely recommend Moalboal, Anda, and even Siquijor although the other areas were also very enjoyable.

I hope to post another blog with some of our adventures in Vietnam in about a month, we have already been here about 2 weeks. 1 week of this time we spent in Siagon (AKA Ho Chi Minh City) being dazzled by the bright lights and people watching. We spent a few days in Nha Trang and are currently in Da Nang and we are making our way up to Hanoi to be there for Alex’s birthday next week as he has several friends there. After that, we may come south again but our route is undetermined. We will hopefully get some good tips on where to visit from the friends in Hanoi.

If you have been to Vietnam and loved a particular area, please let me know in comments below about where you think we should visit. Also please feel free to let me know if you found my blog useful or entertaining or maybe too much detail – I am still new to this so any feedback is appreciated.

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Finally off!

All packed and ready to set off!

I have now actually been in the Philippines for a day and a half now, and I am awake at 4am… 😕 damn jet lag! So I am using this time to try and post the blog that I didn’t manage to post before I left due to technical difficulties, I had it all written out and pictures added, but it didn’t upload. So let’s try it again (although it might be slightly out of date now).

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I have now been back in the South West of England for slightly over a month and have FINALLY had my corrections accepted for my PhD thesis after a few back and forths regarding formatting errors. Word is a pain with formatting when it comes to long documents, if you change just one tiny thing, everything else goes out of place! It was extremely frustrating at times and took way longer than it should have, but that’s just been how the whole PhD has gone. One of my friends has really helped me out by printing, binding, and submitting the thess for me – many thanks Orla, this has been such a great help to me! You are lovely! 🙂 also thanks to the other friends who offered to help when I was back in Belfast. I am delighted to say that I have finally finished, at last!

Orla submitted my hardbound thesis on Friday 13th September and collected the canvas PhDone! bag for me.

I did somewhat put off writing this until the PhD was finalised as I was getting quite stressed out with it and if it was not finished first then it probably would have changed the tone of the post a lot. I have to admit I was feeling quite down at some points, which I have heard is quite normal after a PhD from all of my friends and family that have done them. I did some yoga to help with this stress but perhaps not as much as i would have liked. Although I hope I have passed this period now and I seem to be in excited mode for travelling now. However, this only came when the little bits and pieces that needed doing were ticked off the to do list. I was feeling slightly overwhelmed with it all initially but spent a few days at my parents getting stuff sorted, playing with the fluffy animals and getting some TLC like an amazing home cooked roast dinner.

Since being back I have spent a lot of time by the River Tone and River Culm in various spots. I have been walking quite a bit, from very short meanders near Wellington monument, to mid length walks either with my friend and her dog with some elements of bird spotting, or around the village in the Quantock Hills with Alex’s mum, and then slightly longer walks in the Blackdown Hills or around Clatworthy Reservoir.

We also spent a bit of time in the Mendip Hills near Cheddar Gorge which is an area that I love because of the steep cliff edges with mountain goats, and cute little buildings. We spent one day at our friends new house, and another we wild camped with another close friend of ours. The night we wild camped, bèfore our friend arrived we heard bikes racing all over the hills, and random gun shots late into the evening. We walked up to the local pub and didn’t realise it was a cash only pub. We only had card and had not thought we would need cash. One of the guys in the bar took pity on us only ordering water so bought us both a pint, which was incredibly nice of him.

On one of these walks in the Blackdown Hills we picked blackberries, we got a big harvest – enough for 2 delicious crumbles! 🙂 On another walk we picked up some eggs and plums from the honesty boxes at the side of the tiny country roads which I love – it is so cool to pick up local produce like this :-). We also tucked into some nice local take out with the “Soul Food” truck that is in Hemyock on Tuesday evenings.

On some of these walks we’ve come across lots of cows, they are so fantastically inquisitive. They see you from across the field and push each other out the way to get a better look at what is going on. On the first day that we were playing dungeons and dragons (D&D) by the River Culm, initially the cows were on the other side of the river but after some time they completely surrounded us and we’re very curious about us – I have to admit I was a little intimidated and so we moved further down the field and away from them.

For those of you that are not familiar with D&D, it is an imagination based game where you choose a character. Each character has certain abilities and strengths and weaknesses and generally you play with a small group of friends. One of those is the dungeon master and tells the setting and any advances in the story line but does not generally have a character. Other players say what they want their character to do in relation to the settings, then they have to roll several die and get a high enough score for that to be able to happen. If the die roll is not high enough then the dungeon master decides how your attempt actually looks. It is a lot of fun, and technology means we can now play this anywhere with little hassle – so we spent the bank holiday weekend in August playing D&D at a lovely spot by the river in Cullompton. It got very silly very quickly.

There have been a few great venues for partying during the time I’ve been back; including the Brecon Jazz festival in the Brecon Beacons where there were some really cool bands playing in the best beer garden I have seen – it had a great panoramic view across Pen y Fan; a party on the farm in the Blackdown Hills where Alex’s brother is currently living in order to raise money for refugees where they served some great curries with locally sourced ingredients; and a party at Lilstock beach to celebrate several friends birthdays as well as my finishing my PhD and a final send off before we head off on our travels. Lilstock was right next to the Hinckley Point project, despite this is was a beautiful area. We found a section in the woods which had an area to set up speakers and makeshift steps and hand rail up to it as it was quite a steep climb up. I was impressed by the number of people who came to it and thanks to everyone who did, it was great to see you. Also happy birthday to Sam and Robbie. It was a great overall celebration.

While I’ve been back I have managed to see most of our family. I visited my sister and got to see her new place in the Cotswolds which was lovely, such a cute little village with several beautiful lakes. I didn’t get to spend too long there but it was really nice to catch up with her before I left.

I did also get to see her for a few hours at Clevedon pier which I had never been to before but then went to twice in about a week to meet a friend and then Becky at it just so happened to be about half way between both sets of meet ups. It was quite a nice area with a large outside seasalt swimming pool overlooking the sea which I would have liked to swim in but didn’t get around to this time. There were some people stand up paddle boarding and kayaking there which looked fun.

I have spoken to my brother and sister in law and seen their 1 year old running around via Facebook calls, although not seen them in person since June when they came to Northern Ireland, as they live in Portugal now. I have missed a few of these family calls but hoping to attend a few more while I am away. I have brought myself a tablet which should aid this as my phone has been dying now for a long time so is basically not worth trying to use for this purpose. I have spent a bit of time with my parents over the time I have been back which has been nice. I had lunch with them last monday which will be the last time I see them until I get back, so that was a bit strange. Especially after saying goodbyes to lots of friends at the party at the weekend. We had dinner with Alex’s brothers the other night too, although I didn’t get to see his dad unfortunately as timing didn’t quite work but Alex managed to see him while I went to see my sister.

Despite being busy seeing friends and family, we did manage to slip in a date night at Wellington cinema to see the new Tarintino film – “Once upon a time in Hollywood” which was very entertaining, despite not having a hugely detailed storyline. Wellington cinema is a nice old-school, theatre-style cinema and is one of two cinemas I have been to where you can have a pint while you watch the film. The other was Portrush film club held at Kiwi bar, which is a great venue and would recommend. It is very strange that I will not see many loved ones for a long time now, we are both a little emotional about it to be sure, but the Internet makes it easier to stay in contact, so hopefully we won’t feel too homesick while we are away.

So, I haven’t posted much about the actual travel plans yet, again I was kind of waiting for this post to tell you all but it’s coming up fast. We went to London on Tuesday 17th September via Berry’s coaches and stayed with Alex’s friends Dion and Lotte – thanks so much for letting us stay and transporting us to the airport. It was incredibly helpful for us. It was great to finally meet both of you.

We went to the Vietnamese embassy on Wednesday 18th to pick up our visa’s as we had left it a little late to get them sent through. There was a slight panic as they didnt seem to have our details when we arrived, but it got sorted pretty quickly which was good. Then we set off on Thursday 19th September from Heathrow to Manila in the Philippines with Saudi Arabia airlines with a quick 4 hour layover in Saudi Arabia. The first flight was 6 hours and the second was 10 hours. The airline was great, the food was actually good, there was plenty of leg room, even for us giants, and the choice of entertainment was vast and good. We arrived in Manila mid afternoon local time on the 20th September. We booked a hotel there for 3 nights, which is good as we have been very tired and have barely left the room. We ventured out last night for some eat food at Ying Ying Tea Rooms, we ordered way too much, but it was all delicious. We saw the Chinese – Philippino friendship bridge ad found a cool bar. We saw a lot of sd stray dogs and cats as well as a chicken tethered to the gate.

We have booked onward flights on Monday to Cebu, and return flight before we head on to Vietnam on the 19th October. We get 30 days visa free in the Philippines being British nationals. Our flight lands in Ho Chi Minh on the 20th October just after midnight. We have 1 nights accommodation sorted immediately outside the airport. Our Vietnamese visa is for 3 months but after that we are not quite sure what our route will be. We have several friends in Vietnam that we are hoping to see while we are there. I expect that our route will be from there to Laos.

We managed to get 1 years backpackers insurance for us as a couple. The cheapest deal that we could find was with Explorer insurance. I compared the pay out values with those recommended by Which? Best insurance policies although these were not quite ideal as they didnt offer backpackers insurance, but the policy seemed to cover the monetary values that were recommend for the other types of insurance so we think it was a good deal, but hopefully we will not need it.

We also got ourselves a Revolut card each which should enable us to withdraw cash up to £200 each month and spend at interbank exchange rates (except a slight mark up at weekends when the bank exchange is shut). It is a pre-paid card and is really easy to top up from your regular bank account. They use your other bank and photos of yourself and your ID to verify it is you. You can get a virtual card for online payments which can be changed regularly to help fraud prevention or a physical card, which is more useful for ourselves. We paid nearly £12 for delivery of the card as we needed it quickly, although if you have less time restraints then the fee is only about £5 for delivery for the free basic account. Monthly fees apply of you want a premium version which has a few extra benefits but we felt the free account was suitable for our needs. If you think this might be useful for you too and would also like one, please feel free to get click the link and I may receive some benefits from referring you, although not entirely sure what benefits that would be yet – https://revolut.com/referral/lydialu4s

We have adapted slightly to rucksack lifestyle by the month or two that we have been based in the van – although it will be a bit different as we can’t just pop home if we want something else and we will have to carry the bags where we need them to go rather then have them tucked under the bed in the van.

We managed to leave the van at a friends garage, it was a tight squeeze but with some team work and rearranging of stuff it was a success. Thanks to Tim for letting us store it there, it is incredibly helpful for us!

Well that’s all I have to say right now. I will try to post again in about a month which will be at the end of our time in the Philippines so the next post will include our adventures there and potentially some of the wacky and wonderful things we have eaten while we are there.

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End of an era

Dunseverick Falls were about 20 mins drive away from where we lived in the North Coast of Northern Ireland

I wrote most of this on my way to the airport, to leave Belfast, and generally Northern Ireland, for the foreseeable future. It has been my home for close to 6 years, and it’s going to feel very strange to leave it all behind. I have made many great friends from being there, I have enjoyed exploring the landscape, and I have learnt a lot about myself as an individual throughout good times, less good times, and frankly some very challenging times.

As excited as I am about the next chapter of life, the travels and the fun times ahead – I am also quite emotional to be leaving Ireland behind.

If you read the last post you might be wondering if I managed to submit my PhD corrections… Well, almost. I sent them through to the professor who was my internal examiner for the viva, but unfortunately I didn’t do so with enough time for her to check through them, then to print, bind and actually submit before my flight home. But on the plus slide I have had several wonderful friends offer help with this part. As long as they collect the PhDone! Bag for me, it will all be OK! It is a slight shame that I didn’t get to submit it myself, but what can you do? Life doesn’t always work out as you’d hope, in fact my life seems to be full of not expected twists and turns. For instance, when I was applying for my undergraduate degree, I initially applied for medicine. At the time I was very upset to not get into medicine, but now I see it as a blessing in disguise as I do not believe I would have been happy as a medical doctor. I was offered several other courses at other universities and ended up really enjoying the one I settled on. Then after that course I was applying for PhD positions. Again, I was not expecting to end up in Belfast, I applied to QUB more as a back up plan, but then didn’t get offered any other positions. The position I was offered was not the one I initially applied for, and when I accepted I was expecting to be finished 2 years ago… But hey, then I would not have explored so much of the island of Ireland. But between these lies a very important, unexpected situation that I found myself in, this amazing, long term relationship with Alex. We met at 6th form college, but at the time we both had other partners. We just happened to both be back from university and looking for people to hang out with at the same time. Neither of us were looking for a relationship, but we both really enjoyed each others company, and here we are nearly 7 years later, still very happy together and about to explore the world, well a large section of Asia anyway.

My point is, although life can throw unexpected obstacles at you, you can still manage to enjoy the ride. It may feel like the worst thing at the time, but I do believe these things have a way of working themselves out in the end. Sometimes we all need help remembering this, and I have found Yoga with Adriene on YouTube to be very helpful in enabling me to put things into perspective better and enjoy more of life’s surprises. I do my own yoga practice as well, but often like to stick on a lesson, and she is my go to – so go check out her channel, she has something for everyone. I am not in any way affiliated with her (although I would love to be one day). I just feel she spreads a great message and enjoy her way of doing so. I think the world needs more hope, kindness and love.

I have decided already that I need to come back to Ireland for a few things that I never got around to doing. Despite having lots of adventures here there are some areas I never managed to explore. Below is my map of Ireland with stars showing the places I have visited. It might have a few places missing, but in general most are saved. But some of the places I still have the pleasure to look forward to include the Gobbins cliff path, Ring of Kerry (when not too foggy to see past the end of the van), Waterford and Wexford area, an array of castles all over the island but I will not list them all individually, more of the Glens of Antrim, as well as specific areas in Sligo and Donegal and any of the surrounding islands. I have a long list but that’s the main ones. Another obvious reason to return is to have the craic with some of the amazing friends I made that will still be there (for anyone who is not familiar, this is Irish slang for generally having good times).

My map of Ireland with places that I have been marked with stars.

I am happy to have spent time exploring this beautiful land mass and to have called it home for a fairly big portion of my life, despite it being extremely challenging at times. These challenges have contributed to who I am and how I deal with things now. I do not claim to understand all the politics and intricacies of the place. But it is a fantastic, beautiful place to spend time and for the most part people are very warm, welcoming, friendly and great fun to be around. I would absolutely recommend Ireland as a place to have adventures, see amazing places, swot up on history, and have a great time. Although, my suggestion would be to always bring a rain coat… The weather can change so quickly, and the forecast can be just plain wrong a lot. But for me, I loved it even when it was raining a lot of the time – any excuse to get outside, particularly near the end of my PhD. I feel the struggle with the PhD has lead me to consciously go and explore the area I was in more, as this was something I really enjoyed and helped me to deal with the stress that was PhD life.

Spent a lovely afternoon watching damsel flies by the river.

My flight back to England was earlier this week. Since I have been back, I have met up with some great friends and been slack-lining (seen below) and explored their local area that they have just moved to which is beautiful and right beside a river with beautiful wildlife (see above). I have been home at my parents for a day and been spoiled with delicious food including home made scones with clotted cream and strawberries 🙂 I do love my daddies cooking!

Slack-lining by the river in a lovely Somerset village with some great friends since being back in England.

There are several parties and festivals that we are hoping to go to in the coming weeks which means the weekends in August seem to have been filled before I even moved back home. This includes going to a jazz festival in the Brecon Beacons as well as helping out our friends at a festival in the Lake District in their new food truck venture (called Nacho Burrito) – which is great as I was keen to get up that way anyway. I am hoping to spend some holiday time in this area and also get to see some of my family that live there – I may even get to see my cousin go paragliding which would be fun, as well as meeting some additions to the family that I have never met yet!

I hope to post another blog before we set off for Asia, which may involve some more pictures from my time in Ireland, or more of what I will be getting up to in the next few weeks.

We still have not booked flights to Asia yet so not entirely sure what date we will be setting off yet, or our first destination. I did apply for my new passport earlier today and we have a travel vaccination consultation on Tuesday, so things are starting to come together for it. Very exciting. Stay tuned if you are interested in following our adventures – I believe you can sign up for notifications on when new posts are released if that is something you would like to do, although I am not exactly familiar with how this is done :-S If you know, please feel free to comment and let others know.

Talk soon!

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